How do you decide what to eat for dinner?

We both suggest options and agree on one.

One of us chooses while the other agrees (most of the time).

We argue about it, and someone ends up annoyed.

Who takes the lead in major life decisions?

We discuss things and make the decision together.

It depends—sometimes it’s me, sometimes it’s my partner.

One of us usually dominates the decision-making.

How do you decide on weekend plans?

We agree on a plan that excites us both.

One of us suggests something, and we go with it.

We often disagree, and plans change last minute.

When making financial decisions, how does it go?

We openly discuss and decide together.

One of us usually takes the lead, but we check in with each other.

We struggle to get on the same page.

How do you handle conflicts about decisions?

We calmly talk and find a fair compromise.

We sometimes argue, but we figure it out.

We get frustrated and struggle to agree.

Who picks the vacation destination?

We both research and pick a place we love.

We take turns choosing where to go.

We can never agree, and planning is stressful.

How do you decide on home decor or furniture?

We work together and blend our styles.

One of us cares more and makes the choices.

We argue over everything, from color to placement.

When faced with an unexpected problem, how do you both react?

We discuss and tackle it together.

One of us takes charge while the other supports.

We panic or disagree on what to do.

How do you handle social plans with friends or family?

We discuss and make a joint decision.

One of us usually organizes it, but we check in.

We often argue about whose plans to prioritize.

If you both want different things, how do you decide?

We compromise and find a middle ground.

It usually turns into a battle of wills.

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10 Questions | Updated: Mar 27, 2025

Every relationship is built on choices—big and small. From picking a movie to planning a future together, how you and your partner make decisions says a lot about your dynamic. Are you a power duo, a harmonious team, or constantly at odds? Take this quiz to find out how your decision-making style impacts your relationship and whether it strengthens or strains your bond!