Getting married is a big step in someone’s life. Of course, there is always the option of a divorce, but this situation is not desirable. Ending a marriage comes with psychological trauma, expenses, splitting finances, deciding who gets the couch in the living room, and so on. Not to mention how complicated the situation gets when you have kids. If you want to avoid the trouble of breaking up with a spouse and starting all over again, make sure you marry the right person in the first place. The ‘before you get married quiz’ here will let you know how well-suited you are with your partner.
1. How much of the time do you feel happy with this person?
A. More than 90 percent
B. Around 70 percent
C. 50 percent
D. Rarely
2. How do you end up dividing tasks or chores?
A. We try to divide them equally
B. My partner does some of the things
C. I end up doing most things
D. I do the things that I’m better at it, and he does the same
3. You are running late. What is your partner’s reaction?
A. They call and ask me if I am OK
B. They call to tell me the dinner is getting cold
C. They don’t even notice
D. They make a big scene when I get home
4. You have put on some extra pounds. Does your partner support you?
A. Yes, they propose exercising together
B. Yes, they remind me I should exercise more and eat less
C. Not really, they sometimes make me feel uncomfortable about the issue
D. No, they don’t notice or worse they mock me
5. Does he or she ever try to limit the amount of time you spend with other people?
A. Not at all, we have fun separately as well
B. No, although my partner is a bit unhappy when we are not together
C. Yes, sometimes
D. Yes, often
6. Have you ever noticed a red flag in your relationship?
A. Never
B. Not sure
C. Once
D. Multiple times
7. Do you feel comfortable around your partner?
A. Yes, I can reveal my bad habits and weird parts to them
B. Yes, most times
C. Not really
D. No, I always feel like I’m walking on eggshells
8. How do you find their little quirks?
A. Adorable
B. Funny
C. Well, just a little odd
D. Annoying
9. You disagree on a topic. How do you solve this problem?
A. We agree to disagree
B. We feel disappointed but avoid fighting
C. We eventually start a fight after trying to compromise
D. We start fighting right away
10. Do you agree on the number of kids you want to have?
A. Absolutely
B. More or less
C. Not really
D. We haven’t discussed about this yet
11. Do you feel excited about this relationship?
A. Yes, very much
B. Yes, most times
C. So-so
D. Not really
12. Have you shared things that make you uncomfortable, scared or are traumatic?
A. Not reallyrn
B. Yes, and they made me feel safe and understoodrn
C. Yes, I havern
D. No, I’m not comfortable
13. Have you pictured yourself marrying this person?
A. Yes, I have
B. Sometimes
C. Yes, all the time
D. No
14. How long have you been together?
A. We’ve been together for 2-3 years
B. We’ve been together for a couple of months
C. We’ve been together more than 3 years
D. We’ve been together for around a year
15. Have you discussed financial matters with your partner?
A. We discussed finances when there was a problem
B. We’ve discussed financial matters in the past
C. We discuss all financial matters comfortably
D. No, we haven’t
16. Have you considered living together?
A. It’s too early for that
B. We’ve just moved in together
C. We’ve been living together for a while
D. Not yet
17. Has your partner met your friends and family?
A. Yes, many times
B. It’s too early for that
C. Not yet
D. Yes, they’ve met
18. What is your family’s opinion about your relationship?
A. They’ve not met my partner yet
B. They have their doubts
C. They think that we have potential
D. They think we are a good match
19. How would you describe conversation between you and your partner?
A. Lacking
B. Volatile
C. Easy
D. Meaningful
20. Do you feel anxious or stressed around your partner?
A. Frequently
B. Of course not
C. No
D. Sometimes
