1. Does your boyfriend often avoid helping with household chores or responsibilities?
2. Does he frequently procrastinate or delay important tasks and responsibilities?
3. Is he often too "busy" to spend time with you or fulfill commitments?
4. Does he lack ambition and long-term goals in his personal or professional life?
5. Does he frequently make excuses to avoid responsibilities or commitments?
6. Does he rely on you to do most of the planning and decision-making in the relationship?
7. Does he often neglect his physical health and well-being?
8. Does he frequently complain about being tired or lacking energy?
9. Is he unenthusiastic or uninterested in trying new activities or experiences?
10. Does he frequently need reminders or follow-ups to complete tasks or fulfill commitments?