1. Does your partner live much of their lives inside their own heads?
2. May your partner have a problem reconciling their reality with their fantasy?
3. In relationship, your partner often has clear ideas about what makes for a solid relationship and is unwavering in their pursuit of this ideal.
4. Your partner doesn't usually see the need for frivolous affection or romance, feeling that their devotion should be evident.
5. Your partner doesn't show emotion easily.
6. Your partner is constantly embarking on "fix-up" projects to improve the overall quality of their lives and your relationship.
7. Your partner also has a tendency to believe that they are always right.
8. My partner is usually difficult to get to know well and difficult to get close to as a friend.
9. Your partner is a true perfectionist, and so they take your relationship very seriously.
10. A relationship with your partner is intellectually stimulating, exciting, and intense.