1. Do I frequently yell at my child?
2. Do I use spanking as a form of discipline?
3. Do I frequently punish my child by taking away privileges or possessions?
4. Do I often criticize my child's behavior in front of others?
5. Do I react strongly when my child misbehaves but then "forget" about it later?
6. Am I quick to punish but slow to reward?
7. Do I let my child get away with bad behavior because he or she is cute or popular?
8. Am I overly lenient on punishment when other people are around (e.g. if friends are over) but stricter when no one is around (e.g. alone with my partner)?
9. Am I overly harsh with my disciplinary actions but lenient when it comes to rewards?
10. At the end of the day, do I feel like a terrible parent if I have a negative experience with or concerning my child?