1. How often do you experience insults, and embarrassing moments from people/ people?
2. Do they control what you do, whom you talk to, or where you go?
3. Do they control the money in the relationship? Do they take your money or paycheck, force you to work, make you ask for money, make you pay for everything, or refuse to give you money?
4. Do they make all the decisions without your input or consideration of your needs?
5. Do they stalk you, follow you, spy on you, or hack into your accounts?
6. Have they ever forced you to have sex with them, have sex with other people, or do anything sexual when you didn't want to?
7. Do they act like the abuse is no big deal, deny the abuse altogether, or tell you that it's your fault?
8. Do they control what you do, whom you talk to, or where you go?
9. Have they stopped you from seeing your friends or family?
10. Do you truly believe you have experienced domestic abuse?