1. Do you often find yourself feeling guilty for wanting to do things that you enjoy, such as spending time with your family or friends?
2. Do you often feel criticized or talked down to by your partner, resulting in you feeling inadequate or inferior?
3. Does your partner seem too busy for you, or do they dismiss conversations where you want to talk about your feelings?
4. Do you feel like you have the same conversations with your partner over and over, but nothing ever seems to change?
5. Does your partner often convince you that you are wrong when you bring up a concern or issue in your relationship, even if you know in your gut that you are right?
6. Does your partner often turn things around on you, blame you and make you feel guilty or ashamed?
7. Does it seem like your partner is ALWAYS the victim when you are having arguments?
8. Do you feel like your partner often entices or provokes you on purpose in an argument, just to get you to say something they can use against you?
9. Does your partner make threats or use emotional blackmail if you try to leave or break up with them?
10. Does your partner often act like they don’t understand or don’t remember something when you bring it up in an argument, avoiding any fault or blame?
11. Has your partner ever asked you to do things for them and blamed you if they turned out wrong?
12. Does your partner get jealous or envious of your success and happiness?
13. Does your partner push you to lie about their personality in order to protect their personal image?
14. Is your partner an attention seeker?
15. Do they over-promise and under-deliver?
