The term “sapiosexual” is used to define individuals attracted to intelligence. Sapiosexuals are unique because they largely rely on intellectual stimulation to achieve arousal. Anybody can be a sapiosexual, whether male, female, gay, straight or anything in between. Sapiosexuals are invigorated by another person’s knowledge, comprehension, and overall wisdom.
Is intelligence your biggest turn-on? Is someone’s capacity to think and act smartly the sexiest thing to you? Do you ask yourself, “Am I a sapiosexual?” Take this quiz to find out.
1. What is your favorite thing to do on a first date?
A. Have deep, meaningful conversations
B. Drink and party
C. Endlessly flirt with my date
2. Would you be able to handle being in a long-distance relationship?
A. No, I need to see and feel my partner in person
B. Of course, as long as we talk regularly
C. Maybe for a little while but definitely not long term
3. How do you feel when someone uses bad grammar?
A. It irks me to the core
B. I never even notice things like that
C. I don’t usually mind it too much
4. What is the best gift that a romantic partner could give you?
A. An expensive piece of jewelry
B. A great book that we can both read together
C. A thoughtful card
5. Where do you think you would have the most luck meeting a potential partner?
A. At the bar
B. At the beach
C. At the library
6. What would be the biggest sexual turn-on for you?
A. Someone telling me precisely what they want to do to me in the bedroom
B. Someone being super hot and physically attractive
C. Someone who is experienced and knows what they’re doing
7. What is the very first thing you usually notice about another person?
A. Their mind-blowing good looks
B. Their ability to have a conversation
C. Their overall interest in me
8. What kind of activity would you most enjoy doing with a partner?
A. Going to see a scary horror movie
B. Going skiing
C. Sitting and chatting over a cup of coffee
9. Would you ever date someone who you considered not as intelligent as you?
A. Yes, I would
B. No, I would not
C. I am not sure
10. Which term would best describe your “type” of partner?
A. Nerdy
B. Athletic
C. Charismatic
11. How important is physical fitness to you in a partner?
A. Very important, I want someone who takes care of their body
B. Somewhat important, but not a dealbreaker
C. Not important at all, I care more about personality
12. What is your favorite way to spend a lazy Sunday?
A. Binge-watching TV shows or movies
B. Reading a book or doing a hobby
C. Sleeping in and relaxing
13. How do you feel about public displays of affection?
A. I love them and think they're important in a relationship
B. I'm okay with them, but prefer to keep things more private
C. I don't like them and think they're inappropriate in public
14. What is your opinion on marriage?
A. I definitely want to get married someday
B. I'm open to it, but not sure if it's for me
C. I don't believe in marriage and don't want to get married
15. How important is it for your partner to share your religious or spiritual beliefs?
A. Very important, I want someone who shares my beliefs
B. Somewhat important, but not a dealbreaker
C. Not important at all, I'm open to different beliefs
