Managing relationships can sometimes be challenging, and it's essential to maintain a healthy and respectful dynamic. This "Am I a pervert in my relationship" quiz will help you assess whether your behavior in your relationship falls into the space of being inappropriate or crossing boundaries.
It will provide insights into your actions and help you understand if there are areas for improvement.
1. How well do you respect your partner's boundaries?
A. I am always mindful of their boundaries and prioritize their comfort and consent
B. Sometimes, I unintentionally push their boundaries, but I try to learn from my mistakes
C. I frequently disregard their boundaries or make them feel uncomfortable
2. How often do you engage in non-consensual or coercive acts with your partner?
A. Never, I prioritize consent and respect their choices
B. Occasionally, but it is usually due to a lack of communication or misunderstandings
C. Frequently, I disregard their consent and coerce them into things they are not comfortable with
3. How often do you make sexual comments or jokes that make your partner uncomfortable?
A. Never, I am always mindful of their comfort and avoid making them uncomfortable
B. Sometimes, but it's usually in a lighthearted manner, and I respect their boundaries
C. Frequently, I often make explicit or suggestive comments that make my partner uncomfortable
4. How do you handle discussions about your partner's sexual boundaries and desires?
A. I actively listen and respect their boundaries and desires
B. I sometimes struggle with understanding their boundaries, but I make an effort to learn and communicate
C. I dismiss their boundaries and desires, or I impose my own preferences on them
5. How well do you communicate consent during sexual activities with your partner?
A. I prioritize communication and ensure we have explicit consent throughout
B. Sometimes, I may overlook verbal consent, but I am generally mindful of non-verbal cues
C. I often engage in sexual activities without seeking or considering consent
6. How do you react when your partner expresses discomfort or disinterest in sexual activities?
A. I respect their feelings and preferences and prioritize their emotional well-being
B. Sometimes I may feel disappointed, but I understand and accept their boundaries
C. I pressure or guilt them into engaging in sexual activities regardless of their feelings
7. How often do you invade your partner's privacy without their consent?
A. Never, I respect their privacy and boundaries
B. Occasionally, but it's usually due to misunderstandings or curiosity
C. Frequently, I disregard their privacy and boundaries
8. How do you handle discussions about pornography or sexual materials with your partner?
A. We have open and respectful conversations about our comfort levels and boundaries
B. Sometimes, we may have differing opinions, but we try to understand and respect each other
C. I disregard their discomfort or boundaries and pressure them to engage in activities related to pornography or sexual materials
9. How often do you make unsolicited sexual advances toward your partner?
A. Never, I prioritize their consent and respect their boundaries
B. Occasionally, but I apologize and learn from my mistakes
C. Frequently, I don't seek or respect their consent before making advances
10. How often do you make your partner feel objectified or uncomfortable in a sexual context?
A. Never, I prioritize their emotional well-being and respect their boundaries
B. Occasionally, but I make an effort to reflect and improve my behavior
C. Frequently, I consistently make my partner feel objectified or uncomfortable
