4 Ways to Ignite the Spark of Passion in a Long-Term Relationship
We’re all familiar with the wonderful feeling that lust can exude. The inexplicable and uncontrollable desire that seems to penetrate our soul when we’re sexually attracted to another person.
Is it possible to continue to lust after your partner years into the relationship?
We know it can.
Right passion blaze forever
When the conditions are right passion can blaze forever.
A fire will not continue to burn without the right elements. It can also burn out of control with the wrong elements. With relationships, it’s a delicate balance of physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual elements for each couple to determine.
We need to tend to our relationships in much the same way. The key is adding excitement so both partners can feel a comfortable balance of not going too far while pushing the limits of discovery.
Remember that foreplay starts outside the bedroom.
Incorporate these tips into your relationship to keep the flames burning strong:
1. Sending sexy text messages
This is a great way to get things going throughout the day.
You can send some sexy selfies or maybe a playful or erotic text message. Let your partner know what you would like to do to them later or maybe what you would like them to do to you.
2. Plan a surprise date
We believe in planning one surprise date a month for each other.
There’s something about having someone plan a surprise date for you that makes it special. It really doesn’t matter what you do as long as it’s something different and unexpected.
Try goat yoga, take a hot air balloon ride, or build a tent over your bed for an indoor campout.
3. Play dress up
There are two ways you can spin this. Just getting all decked out for each other is one way.
In new relationships, we tend to put our best face forward by paying attention to the details of our appearance and always looking our best for our partner.
Once in a relationship, our partner has more opportunities to see us in our natural state. It’s important we get dressed up for each other, and not just for special occasions like you did in the beginning when you were attempting to win the other over.
Another way to spice things up is to play dress up and roleplay a little bit with each other. You can also get some great lingerie for the bedroom.
There are now even subscription boxes for this. One that we like is The Fantasy Box that comes with lingerie, novelty, and role play cards to get the party started.
4. Surprise gifts
Who doesn’t love good surprises? Receiving anything special out of the blue gifts is fun.
While it is nice to get flowers or a gift on your birthday, it’s even more special on a Tuesday afternoon for no reason at all. A husband recently revealed that on random Fridays he picks up a gift for his wife and declares it as “Gift Friday”.
He makes it random so that it’s not expected as he wants his wife to know how much she means to him.
Creating and maintaining passion in your relationship is simple when you do “the little things” every day to connect with your partner. We all want assurance in our relationships that we are loved and cherished by our partner.
This creates the chemistry and stirs the passion that draws us to each other. A bridge between lust and passion awaits couples who place emphasis on keeping love and romance alive through thoughtful and playful gestures that spark all of our senses.
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