For some people being single is a choice, while for others, being alone is circumstantial. Being single for a while is sustainable for anyone, but for many, the relationship status could start weighing on them.
Loneliness could start settling in, and the feeling that we may not be worth someone’s attention or affection.
So, why do you think you are still single? Take our ‘Why am I still single' quiz and find some possibilities now.
1. Are you annoyed by the repetitive nature of a single person’s life?
A. Yes, every day
B. Yes, some days are like that
C. Not really, I like my life most of the time
D. No, I am happy the way I am
2. Do you feel like you do better financially on your own?
A. Not really, I need guidance
B. Not really, I need someone to help me manage things
C. Yes, I don’t spend much on a date anyways
D. Yes, definitely
3. Do you think you treat your lovers correctly?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. When I feel like it
D. No, not at all
4. Do you think you can be faithful to only one person?
A. Yes
B. If with the right person
C. No, never
D. I don’t want to settle down, to begin with
5. Do you think you can commit to a long-term and serious relationship?
A. Yes, of course
B. When the time comes, I will
C. Maybe when I am older
D. No, not really because I feel like a loner
6. Are you happier by yourself?
A. Yes
B. Most of the time, yes
C. Maybe you don't know
D. Not really
7. Do you feel lonely as a single person?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. Yes, but it’s mostly because of boredom
D. No, no way
8. Do you think you are single because you’ve always been misunderstood?
A. Yes, it's possible
B. Maybe
C. Not really, things are quite straightforward with me from the get-go
D. I generally don’t care what other people think of me
9. Can you be faithful to one person?
A. I doubt if I can
B. Yes, I can
C. Well, I think I can be loyal to one person
D. I definitely cannot be
10. Can you take care of someone’s needs?
A. I'm not ready for that
B. No, I am yet to explore
C. Only if their personality matches mine
D. I need to clarify to them what our individual responsibilities are
11. Do you have low self-esteem?
A. Yes, and I think I need to work on that
B. On occasion
C. I don’t care if I have
D. Not at all
12. Do you feel you haven’t found a compatible partner?
A. I just feel I haven't found one
B. Sometimes, but I am confused
C. No
D. My dates find me too controlling. So, things don’t end positively
13. Are you more concerned about your career than anything else?
A. I want to build my career to a point before anything else
B. Kind of
C. Not at all
D. It’s essentially because I am not ready to settle with one person now
14. Do you miss your last relationship?
A. Yes, a lot
B. Sometimes
C. Not really, I’ve moved on really fast
D. I generally don’t hold on to relationships
15. Do you wish you could settle down now?
A. Yes, definitely
B. Sometimes I feel like it
C. Not really, I like worry-free life
D. I don't know
16. How do you react when someone shows interest in you?
A. I get nervous and often don't know how to respond.
B. I assess their potential as a long-term partner before proceeding.
C. I enjoy the attention but don't take it too seriously.
D. I'm indifferent; I like my independence too much.
17. How often do you go out on dates?
A. Rarely, it's hard to meet someone who interests me.
B. Only when I meet someone who seems to fit my strict criteria
C. Often, but they don't usually lead to anything serious.
D. I don't actively seek out dates; I prefer doing things on my own
18. Do you believe in love at first sight?
A. I'm skeptical but hope to be proven wrong.
B. It's a nice concept, but real relationships require more than just initial attraction.
C. Not really, I think attraction grows with time, if at all.
D. No, I believe more in individual growth than in romantic myths.
19. How do you feel about sharing your personal space with someone else?
A. It makes me anxious; I value my privacy.
B. It's important to set boundaries and mutual respect from the start.
C. I'm not sure I like the idea of someone else invading my space.
D. I love my space and freedom too much to share it.
20. How important is a romantic relationship in your life right now?
A. It's important, but I haven't had much luck.
B. It would be nice, but I have other priorities that come first.
C. Not very; I'm enjoying exploring different aspects of my life.
D. Not at all; I'm focused on my personal growth and happiness.
