Where Do You Fall On The Aromantic Spectrum Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 12359 | Updated: Jul 07, 2025
1. How do I feel about romantic gestures like love letters or candlelit dinners?

I love them and find them very meaningful
Sometimes I like them, but my feelings change
I don’t really care for them
I only appreciate them in deeply connected relationships
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2. If someone you admire expresses romantic interest in you, how do you feel?

I’d be thrilled and excited to explore something romantic with them
It depends on where I’m at emotionally—I might feel great or awkward
I’d probably be confused or unsure about how I feel in return
I’d need time to see if emotional connection develops first
3. What kind of love songs resonate with you most?

Songs full of classic romance and poetic declarations of love
Depends on my mood—some days I love them, other days they feel cringey
I prefer songs about friendship or personal growth over romance
Songs about love that grows from deep understanding and trust hit home
4. What do you think when friends gush about their romantic partners?

I find it charming and love hearing their romantic stories
Sometimes I relate, sometimes I completely tune out
I don’t usually connect with what they’re describing
I understand their feelings only if the bond seems deeply emotional
5. How would you describe your ideal “relationship talk” with someone?

A dreamy discussion about romantic plans, shared fantasies, and affection
I might be enthusiastic or withdrawn depending on how I feel that day
I focus more on companionship or practical aspects rather than romance
I only open up to such conversations once there's emotional depth between us
6. How do you feel about public displays of affection (PDA)?

I enjoy romantic gestures in public—they’re sweet and meaningful
Sometimes I like PDA, other times it feels unnecessary—it depends
I usually feel indifferent or uncomfortable with PDA
I’m only comfortable with PDA if I deeply trust and connect with the person
7. What is my ideal relationship dynamic?

Something full of romance, affection, and passion
A connection that evolves naturally, without set rules
A strong friendship without romantic expectations
A deep emotional bond that grows over time
8. How do I react when someone confesses romantic feelings for me?

I usually feel excited and flattered
My reaction depends on how I’m feeling at the moment
I feel uncomfortable because I don’t experience much romantic attraction
I only consider it seriously if we have an emotional connection
9. How do I feel about seeing romance in movies or books?

I enjoy it and find it entertaining
Sometimes I like it, sometimes I don’t
I don’t really connect with romantic stories
I only enjoy it when it reflects deep emotional bonds
10. How often do I daydream about romance?

Very often, I love thinking about romantic scenarios
Occasionally, depending on my mood
Rarely, romance isn’t a big part of my thoughts
Only when I have strong emotional feelings for someone
11. How would you describe your idea of romance?

I enjoy conventional romance and its aesthetics
My feelings about romance fluctuate over time
I rarely experience romantic attraction
I only feel romantic attraction after forming a deep emotional bond
12. Do you have a romantic partner at the moment?

Yes, I’m in a romantic relationship that developed after forming a deep emotional connection
I’m dating someone, but my feelings change over time
No, I don’t have a romantic partner
I like someone, but I don’t want to be romantically involved
13. Do you like being romantically involved with someone you like?

Yes, I enjoy romance with people I like
Sometimes, but my feelings about it change
Rarely, as I don’t often experience romantic attraction
Only after forming a deep emotional connection
14. How do you feel about the idea of being in love?

I love the idea of romance and being in love
My feelings about love and romance shift over time
I don’t strongly relate to the concept of being in love
I only consider love when I deeply trust and connect with someone
15. What is most important to you in a relationship?

I value the romantic aspects the most
My priorities in a relationship change over time
I care more about companionship than romance
Emotional connection is the most important thing for me
16. How easy is it for you to develop romantic feelings?

I experience romantic attraction regularly
It depends; sometimes I do, sometimes I don’t
I rarely develop romantic feelings
I only develop romantic feelings after a strong emotional bond is formed
17. How do you feel about physical affection in romantic relationships?

I enjoy physical affection when it aligns with my unique romantic preferences
My comfort with physical affection shifts over time
I usually don’t seek out physical affection when romance is involved
I only enjoy physical affection with someone I deeply trust
18. How do you experience romantic attraction?

I find romance appealing, but I have my own unique ideas about it
My romantic attraction changes over time
I only experience romantic attraction in rare instances
I only feel romantic attraction after forming a deep bond
19. Have you been in a long-term relationship?

Yes, and I enjoyed it
No, because my romantic feelings fluctuate
No, because I rarely feel romantic attraction
Yes, but only after forming a deep emotional connection
20. What do you feel about dating?

I like dating and find it exciting
My interest in dating changes from time to time
I rarely feel the urge to date
I prefer forming a deep emotional bond before considering dating
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