1. How often do you find a mutually satisfying solution when you disagree?
2. When making decisions together, how much is your opinion considered?
3. How do you feel after resolving a disagreement?
4. How often do either of you adjust plans to meet the other’s needs?
5. How do you manage different interests, like hobbies or free time activities?
6. How are future plans (career, living situation, children) decided?
7. How do you handle financial decisions?
8. In times of stress or crisis, how do you support each other?
9. How are household responsibilities divided?
10. How often do you revisit decisions if one of you is unhappy?