How do you feel about personality versus looks in a boyfriend?

I tend to be more attracted to a guy's personality.

I think both are equally important, but if I had to choose I would choose personality.

I think both are equally important, but if I had to choose I would choose looks.

I tend to prefer looks over personality.

Do you have dreams of settling down and starting a family?

Settling down, yes. Family, I am not sure yet.

That would be ideal, but I would be okay if it didn’t happen as well.

How do you feel about punctuality?

I try my best to be on time for things, but I am not overly strict about punctuality.

Not important to me at all, I am late for everything.

Very important to me. I can’t stand it when people are late.

I don’t feel any particular way about it.

Would you rather have a simple life or a more luxurious life?

I don’t care about luxury, I am fine with a simple life.

I think a little bit of both. A simple life with the luxury of being able to do the things I want to do and go to the places I want to go.

It doesn’t matter, as long as it’s stable and I am happy.

I would prefer luxury; who wouldn’t?

How do you feel about how your boyfriend treats other people?

It is extremely important. I can’t be with someone who treats others poorly.

It doesn’t really matter to me, as long as he treats me well.

It is important as it showcases his character.

His treatment of me is what matters.

Which would you prefer?

Being treated like someone precious.

Should your needs come before your man’s needs?

Not necessarily all the time, but sometimes.

They are both equally as important.

What is the best option in your opinion?

An attractive guy inside and out.

What Do I Really Want in a Boyfriend Quiz

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 764 | Updated: Feb 24, 2022

As we grow up, we start to form ideas for the type of boyfriend that we want in our life. These could include physical features, personality types, specific attributes, goals, values, etc. But sometimes, when it's time to choose a man, we often realize that our ideas are far from reality. Ask yourself, "what do I really want in a boyfriend" for clarity. The men we are attracted to may not precisely fit the mold that we've planned out in our heads. So how do you know what you want in a man? Should you stick to the list you've been making in your head or go for the person you feel naturally drawn to? rnTake this quiz to find out what you want in a boyfriend!