1. You notice that you're having more and more fights with your partner, and it's getting harder to reach a mutually agreeable resolution.
2. How does an ordinary evening look like for you two?
3. What is your priority when you two have a disagreement?
4. Does your spouse enjoy being near you?
5. Does your spouse have the patience to teach you something new that you've never tried before?
6. How often are you physically intimate?
7. Do you feel cared for by your spouse when you are feeling down or sick?
8. Does your spouse listen to you when you speak about your interests?
9. Has either of you been unfaithful to the other?
10. Are you and your spouse comfortable admitting to your mistakes?