When a baby is born, he or she has physical and safety needs that must be met quickly and consistently. When caregivers are unstable or unresponsive during the first few years of a child’s life, the child is at risk for developing an attachment disorder. rnHere's a simple ‘Do I have a reactive attachment disorder’ quiz to find out what's going on in your head.
1. Are you scared of being socially open with others, especially your loved ones?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. No, never
2. Have you been physically abused?
A. Yes
B. Kind of
C. No
3. When you were a child, did you avoid eye contact with others?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. No, never
4. Do you have a tendency to suppress feelings of remorse, guilt, or regret?
A. Yes
B. Depends on the situation
C. No
5. Do you try to avoid physical touch, especially from loved ones?
A. Yes, they made me uncomfortable
B. Sometimes
C. No
6. Do you feel unhappy or sad for no apparent reason?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes but it’s not a big deal
C. No
7. Do you sometimes feel that your loved ones don't value you enough?
A. Yes, definitely
B. Sometimes
C. Nope, never
8. Do you want to be close to someone but find it difficult to do so?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. No, never
9. Do you feel uncomfortable talking to strangers?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. No, never
10. Do you ever feel unappreciated?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. No