The Ultimate Marriage Compatibility Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 17190 | Updated: Feb 18, 2025
1. When it comes to family finances, are you both on the same page?

Yes, always
Most of the time
Not so much
We are polar opposites
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The Ultimate Marriage Compatibility Quiz
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2. How do you and your partner express affection towards each other?

We regularly show affection in ways that are meaningful to both of us
We express affection, but our styles differ slightly
One of us is more affectionate than the other, leading to occasional misunderstandings
We rarely express affection, and it affects our relationship negatively
3. How compatible are your lifestyles and daily routines?

Our routines and habits are well-synchronized
We have some differences but manage to coordinate effectively
Our routines often clash, leading to minor inconveniences
We have completely different lifestyles that cause frequent conflicts
4. How do you and your partner approach conflict resolution?

We address issues calmly and find solutions together
We sometimes resolve conflicts but often leave issues unresolved
We frequently argue, and it takes time to move past disagreements
Our conflicts often escalate, and we struggle to find resolutions
5. How aligned are you and your partner on having children?

We both want the same number of children and have a clear plan
We have some differences but are willing to compromise
One of us is unsure about having children
We have completely different views on having children
6. How do you and your partner handle financial decisions?

We discuss all financial matters openly and make joint decisions
We have general discussions but manage our finances separately
One of us primarily makes the financial decisions
We often argue about money and struggle to find common ground
7. Do your religious views come together?

Yes
We practice different religions, but there is respect for both
No
We practice different religions and often disagree on most beliefs
8. How do you spend your leisure time?

We both have our respective hobbies, but shared interests as well
We spend that time together
We have our individual interests
We spend it with other people
9. Do your political views align with those of your partner?

Yes
Most of them
Very few
Not at all
10. Do you both agree on the subject of kids?

Yes, we are on the same page
Yes, we have talked about it a few times
We have not talked about it yet
We disagree
11. How would you describe your personality?

Passionate
Intelligent
Organized
Fun-loving
12. You and your partner want to go out for dinner. How do you decide on a restaurant?

We love the same restaurants, so we just talk about it and easily decide on a restaurant
We’re both pretty laid-back, so we just head into the city and pick a restaurant
We alternate who gets to choose the restaurant
We spend most of the night arguing, so we just end up getting fast food
13. Were you two friends before you started dating?

Yes, for a few years
Yes, for a few months
We were friends, but not super close
No, we just met and then started dating
14. The holidays are coming up, and it’s time to visit the family. What are your plans?

We invite both families over for a huge get-together and have a great time!
We visit my partner’s family during the day and then visit my family in the evening
Our families don’t really get along, so we just spend the holidays together instead
My partner’s family doesn’t like me (or my family doesn’t like my partner) so we don’t bother visiting either of our families
15. Do they get along with your friends?

Yes, they really likes my friends
Yeah, but they don’t hang out without me
Not really
They have never met my friends
16. Do you get along with their friends?

Yes, we get along really well
Yeah, I like them, but we don’t hang out very much
Not really
I’ve never met his/her friends
17. How often do you talk about your future together?

Often, we both want the same things for our future
A few times; we have a few disagreements, but we generally have the same future in mind
Rarely; I try to bring it up, but they don't seem to want to talk about it
Never; we’ve never talked about it and don’t feel the need to
18. How often do the two of you talk to each other?

Every day
Every few days
Once a week
Once a month
19. How often do the two of you see each other?

Every day
A few times a week
Once a week
Once a month
20. How would you describe your partner’s personality?

Funny
Hard-working
Easygoing
Serious
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