1. Do you feel like your partner understands you better?
2. Is your partner willing to try and change their abusive behavior?
3. Is your partner willing to work with a licensed therapist to create positive change?
4. Does your partner take responsibility for their actions and accept that their behavior is unhealthy?
5. When you express a different opinion, do they respond with anger?
6. Do you still feel like you can't do things because you fear your partner's reaction?
7. Does your partner blame you for his/her own difficulty in changing?
8. Does your partner think you are the one who really needs to change?
9. Is your partner aware of the fact that there is no excuse for abuse?
10. Are you worried about what they might do next time?