1. Has your partner or someone else in your life accused you of being abusive to your partner?
2. Have any of your past partners or someone else in your life accused you of being abusive in past relationships?
3. Have you ever threatened bodily harm to your partner or threatened to kill them?
4. Have you ever been physical with your partner, i.e., hit, punch, slap, push, choke, pull their hair, etc.?
5. If your partner is not doing what you want them to do or is somewhere you don’t want them to be, do you obsessively text and call them until they leave or do what you are asking?
6. Have you ever destroyed things belonging to your partner as a way to get back at them for doing something you didn’t like?
7. Do you believe you should know everyone your partner talks to, hangs out with, everywhere they go, everything they are doing, etc., all of the time?
8. Do you believe your partner should be yelled at, criticized, or harmed if they are acting in a way that upsets you?
9. Do you believe your partner is afraid of you or the things you will do?
10. Do you call your partner names, degrade them, or say things to hurt them on purpose because you know it will upset them?
11. Are you hyper-critical of your partner?
12. Do you behave differently in public than you do when you are alone with your partner, saving your "best behavior" for others?
13. Do you blame your partner when things don't work out the way you envisioned or hoped?
14. Do you belittle or berate your partner?
15. Do you feel your partner can’t do anything right?
