1. Do you believe your partner is afraid of you or the things you will do?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
2. Do you call your partner names, degrade them, or say things to hurt them on purpose because you know it will upset them?
A. Yes, plenty of times
B. No
C. Only once or twice
3. Has your partner or someone else in your life accused you of being abusive to your partner?
A. Yes, plenty of times
B. No
C. Only once or twice
4. Have any of your past partners or someone else in your life accused you of being abusive in past relationships?
A. Yes, plenty of times
B. Only once or twice
C. No
5. Have you ever threatened bodily harm to your partner or threatened to kill them?
A. Yes, plenty of times
B. No
C. Only once or twice
6. Have you ever been physical with your partner, i.e., hit, punch, slap, push, choke, pull their hair, etc.?
A. Yes, plenty of times
B. No
C. Only once or twice
7. If your partner is not doing what you want them to do or is somewhere you don’t want them to be, do you obsessively text and call them until they leave or do what you are asking?
A. Yes, plenty of times
B. No
C. Only once or twice
8. Have you ever destroyed things belonging to your partner as a way to get back at them for doing something you didn’t like?
A. Yes, plenty of times
B. No
C. Only once or twice
9. Do you believe you should know everyone your partner talks to, hangs out with, everywhere they go, everything they are doing, etc., all of the time?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
10. Do you believe your partner should be yelled at, criticized, or harmed if they are acting in a way that upsets you?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
