Marriage isn’t just about sex, but physical intimacy is one of the integral aspects of a happy and healthy marriage. If you feel that your wife always shies away from physical intimacy, you must try to unravel the reason.
Take this ‘Is My Wife Asexual Quiz’ to gain deeper insights into your wife’s behavior and understand her sexual orientation better.
Also, note that the intention of the quiz is not to label your wife, but to help you improve your marital life. The outcome of the quiz is indicative only and is purely based on your responses.
1. Does your wife ever initiate or show interest in having sex?
C. She doesn’t initiate, but I think she is okay with having sex
2. Have you ever experienced a healthy and satisfying sexual bonding in your marriage?
A. Yes, the early days of our marriage were so good!
B. I am not sure
C. No / Never
3. Does your wife prefer emotional intimacy over sexual intimacy?
B. Both sexual and emotional intimacy matter to her
C. Can’t say
4. Does she enjoy deep conversations or simple activities like cuddling or holding hands over having sex?
A. Yes, how do you know?
B. I am not sure
C. Nothing like that, I guess she is happy after having sex as well
5. If you are watching a movie together, and a sexually explicit scene shows up, how does she react?
A. She gets nervous/ She makes an excuse and walks away
B. She doesn’t react
C. If the scene is good, she enjoys it
6. Has your wife ever shown interest in talking about asexuality?
B. I am nor sure
7. How does your wife react to your sexual advances?
A. She gets nervous
B. She seems to be okay with it
C. What should I say? Never tried to observe her reaction
8. Does she ever talk about her sexual fantasies or desires with you?
C. No, but even I don't discuss my fantasies with her
9. Has your wife shown sexual attraction toward others?
A. Not at all
B. No, only towards me
C. Can't say
10. During a sexual encounter, does she show a lack of interest?
B. Sometimes, when she is tired / Not actually
C. I am not sure