Do you feel like your boyfriend doesn’t quite grow up? You don’t feel mature around him, and he often acts immature, childish, or babyish. It's possible to spot a person's level of emotional maturity. Here is a “Is My Boyfriend Immature?" quiz” that will help you identify the emotional immaturity exhibited by your partner!
1. Does he prioritize your needs in the relationship?
A. Yes, he always puts my needs first
B. Sometimes he prioritizes my needs
C. No, he never prioritizes my needs.
2. Does he communicate effectively?
A. Yes, he is a great communicator
B. Sometimes he struggles to communicate effectively
C. No, he is a terrible communicator
3. Does he show affection?
A. Yes, he is very affectionate
B. Sometimes he shows affection.
C. No, he never shows affection
4. Does he have a good work-life balance?
A. Yes, he balances work and personal life well.
B. Sometimes he struggles to balance work and personal life.
C. No, he prioritizes work over personal life
5. Does he have a good relationship with his family?
A. Yes, he has a great relationship with his family
B. Sometimes he has conflicts with his family.
C. No, he has a strained relationship with his family.
6. Does your boyfriend struggle to talk about his feelings?
A. Yes, he is emotionally stunted.
B. He sometimes seems closed-off when it comes to talking about feelings.
C. He is just unable to access or process what’s going on inside.
7. Does he get defensive constantly?
A. Yes, even the slightest criticism sets him off.
B. Not really.
C. It varies.
8. Does he avoid talking about the future?
A. No
B. Yes, and he claims he's “going with the flow”
C. He does see a future together, so it's not a big deal
9. Does he help out in the relationship?
A. No, never.�
B. Yes, he helps out.�
C. It varies.
10. Does he hold grudges?
A. It's not much, but I think it's because of his zodiac sign.
B. He can't control his emotions or reactions towards me.
C. I’m not sure.
11. Does your boyfriend consider you when making decisions?
A. Yes!�
B. Sometimes.
C. No, never!
12. Does he take responsibility?
A. He does.
B. No, he acts childish.
C. It varies.
13. Does he know what he wants?
A. Neither yes nor no.
B. Yes, I love this trait of him.
C. No, he never knows.
14. Does he take things personally?
A. Yes, all the time!
B. Yes, he over-focuses on himself in the relationship�
C. No.�
15. Is he super clingy?
A. Yes, he has a hard time respecting personal boundaries, independence.
B. I can’t say ‘’super’’ but yes.
C. No, he’s smooth.
