How often does he initiate contact?

Sometimes, but not consistently

Rarely or never, I usually have to initiate

How often does he make plans to meet you?

Always takes the initiative and sticks to the plan

Sometimes he does, but other times he's flaky

Rarely or never, it's usually up to me

How does he behave with you in public?

Affectionate and proud to be seen with me

His behavior varies, sometimes warm, sometimes distant

Tends to avoid public displays of affection or seems uninterested

Does he listen when you talk about your life and interests?

Always attentive and interested

He listens sometimes, but often seems distracted

Rarely pays attention or changes the subject

How does he respond when you express your feelings or concerns about the relationship?

Always takes my feelings seriously and responds with respect

Sometimes he's understanding, but other times he dismisses my concerns

Often brushes off my feelings or makes light of them

Does he show genuine interest in your life, feelings, and experiences?

Yes, he is always interested in my feelings and experiences

Sometimes, but not consistently

No, he doesn't show much interest in my personal life

Does he frequently cancel plans or leave you waiting?

No, he respects my time and always sticks to plans

Sometimes, but he usually has a reasonable explanation

Yes, it happens more often than I'd like

Does he introduce you to his close friends and family?

Yes, he often involves me in his social life

He has introduced me to a few people, but not his close circle

No, I have yet to meet people important to him

Does he make an effort to resolve conflicts and improve your relationship?

Yes, he's committed to solving problems and growing together

Sometimes, but other times he avoids confrontation

No, he doesn't make efforts to address issues

Does he talk about future plans involving both of you?

Yes, he constantly talks about our future together

Sometimes, but the plans are often vague or short-term

No, he avoids discussing the future

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 295 | Updated: Jun 27, 2023

Interpreting someone's intentions can be tricky, especially when it comes to romantic interest. This 10-question Is He Keen Or Is He Just Messing You Around Quiz is designed to help you navigate these uncertainties. Whether you're curious about a new acquaintance or wondering about an existing relationship, this quiz aims to provide insights into their possible intentions. Ready to unveil the truth? Let's get started!