Sometimes it could be hard to tell if a guy is just shy or not interested in you or losing interest in you because guys can be tough to read sometimes, which leaves women wondering. Maybe he’s not entirely sure how he feels and is giving mixed signals, or perhaps there is something else holding him back. Or maybe he means nothing by it and just gets busy at times, unintentionally seeming uninterested. Regardless of the reasons, if you need to know how to tell if he is just shy or not interested in you, take this short quiz to find out!
1. Is he shy around everyone or just around you?
A. It’s more around me
B. I think he’s more shy around me, but seems shy in general
C. Definitely shy around everyone. He’s just a shy guy
2. How does he act when he's around his friends?
A. He seems distant and doesn't include me much
B. He acts the same as when he's with me
C. He still seems shy but tries to include me in conversations
3. Has he ever complimented you or shown genuine interest in your life?
A. Not really; he rarely compliments or shows interest
B. He does occasionally, but it's not consistent
C. Yes, he compliments and takes an interest in what I do
4. How does he react when he sees you talking to other guys?
A. He seems indifferent or not bothered at all
B. It's hard to tell; he acts the same as usual
C. He gets a little uneasy or appears jealous
5. Has he ever initiated physical contact, like touching your arm or hand?
A. No, he has never initiated physical contact
B. It's happened a couple of times, but not often
C. Yes, he initiates physical contact occasionally
6. How does he respond to your hints or subtle flirtation?
A. He doesn't seem to pick up on them or doesn't respond positively
B. It's hard to tell; his responses are mixed
C. He responds positively and reciprocates the flirtation
7. Do you always have to initiate the conversation?
A. No, not always
B. Yes, most of the time
C. I think it’s even
8. How does he react when you initiate conversation with him?
A. Somewhat reserved and sometimes uninterested
B. Like he is with everyone else
C. He seems engaged and excited when I initiate conversation
9. Is he the “nice guy”?
A. Yes, definitely
B. I wouldn’t say that
C. Not the typical “nice guy”
10. Has he ever hit you up for sex?
A. Yes/I can imagine him doing that
B. No, we just met
C. No, I can’t imagine him ever doing that
11. Have his friends said anything to you?
A. His friends have mentioned he’s interested, but just shy
B. Yes, they said he is shy but never indicated if he was interested
C. No, nothing
12. Does he ever seem awkward around you?
A. A little bit
B. Yes, it’s kind of cute
C. No, not really
13. Do you feel desperate when you try your moves on him?
C. No, he always seems more than happy I did
14. Has he ever hinted that he had a crush on you?
A. No, never
B. Not actually said it, but definitely hinted at it
C. He awkwardly told me once he did, but I think he is just too shy to make moves
15. What is your gut telling you?
A. He is just shy
B. He is not interested
C. I'm actually not sure