1. Are you aware of your spouse’s sexual past?
A. It doesn't matter that much
C. Not really
D. Not at all and I think my partner is hiding something from me
2. Does your spouse ever shut down for no reason?
B. Sometimes, and I think it has something to do with the past
C. I haven't noticed
D. Yes, and I realize the cause could be the past
3. Has your spouse talked to you about their past?
A. Yes, without worries
B. A bit
C. No really
D. No, and my partner gets nervous when I bring this topic into our discussions
4. What is your reaction when you find out something surprising about your spouse’s past?
A. My partner didn't know me when it happened
B. Who would have thought...
C. Oh, no!
D. I knew it!
5. What is your opinion of a person’s past?
A. Past has made them who they are.
B. You cannot change past, so why think about it?
C. Past can affect future.
D. Tell me your past and I'll tell you who you are.
6. What do you know about your spouse’s high school sweetheart?
A. A lot of information
B. Only the most important pieces of information
C. Not much
7. What do you know about your spouse’s first sexual experience?
A. The most important details
B. Just what I need to know
C. Just their age
8. Do you think someone’s past should stay private?
A. No, it's not a big deal for me
B. I am not sure
D. People shouldn't have that kind of past
9. Is your spouse’s past ruining your relationship?
A. No, because I know everything about it and I am open-minded
B. No, and we haven't talked much about it
C. It did cast a shade on our relationship
D. Yes, it is absolutely doing it
10. What is important to know about your spouse’s past?
A. Their dreams and aspirations when they were younger
B. What they did for a living, stuff like this
C. Who they used to hang out with
D. What mistakes they did