1. How important is small talk in your relationship?
2. You’ve had a bad day at work. Who do you talk to about it?
3. What do you do before going to bed?
4. How often do you talk about pleasant moments with your partner?
5. Are you good at listening to your partner?
6. Do you assume you know the answer when you ask a question to your partner?
7. How often do you do housework together?
8. You go out for dinner together. How do you behave?
9. You are away from your partner for a few days. How often do you call them?
10. Do you avoid conversation if you two have had an argument?
11. Do you both give each other an opportunity to speak?
12. Do either of you get defensive or withdraw from the conversation?
13. Do you both ask questions and discuss the problem?
14. It is important to make your partner feel appreciated and acknowledged. Do you both do that?
15. Do you both base your conversations based on assumptions about the other person or a particular situation?
