Let's take a moment to reflect. When was the last time you had a conversation with your mom? Was it recently, a few days ago, or perhaps longer? Remember, it's not just the passage of time that can create a sense of distance but also our emotional connections.
Have there been times when you've wondered about your mother's feelings towards you? Do you worry that she might be upset with you, indifferent, or that things might never improve?
If these thoughts resonate with you, consider trying this "Does my mom hate me?" quiz to gain some insight into your relationship.
1. How much support do you get from your mom?
A. A lot, but I instead do things alone.
B. None; she thinks I am not worth it.
C. Only helps me financially.
2. Have you ever found your mother tapping into your social media accounts to see whom you were "talking" to?
A. She has never admitted it, but I know she has.
B. Maybe sometimes, but I'm unsure.
C. I don't think she doesn't care.
3. Would your mother reject you as a son or daughter?
A. Yes.
B. Sometimes.
C. No.
4. Does your mother treat you disrespectfully when you make decisions about your own life?
A. No, she’s quite respectful that I grew up on my own.
B. Yes, but I think she tries to protect me deep down.
C. Yes, it’s so frustrating.
5. Do you think that she is fair enough?
A. Sometimes, yeah.
B. Not a little bit.
C. Yes, she is a very fair mum, but sometimes she overdoes it.
6. How much quality time do you spend with your mom?
A. All the time, we’re so close.
B. Rarely.
C. Never.
7. Why do you and your mom argue so often?
A. She calls me every 20 minutes on the dot.
B. She can't stop asking for updates about my life.
C. She drinks too much and becomes aggressive.
8. Does your mother try to promote a fun atmosphere in the home most of the time?
A. Fun atmosphere? I don’t think so!
B. Just sometimes.
C. Yes, she tries her best!
9. You're planning to introduce your new partner to your mother. What will happen when she meets them?
A. She'll welcome them, but later, she'll tell you her honest thoughts about your partner.
B. She enumerates her criticisms of your partner after the meeting, using them as examples to convince your father that you need to date someone else.
C. She'll act like a strict parent for no reason.
10. Does your mother insult you?
A. Yes.
B. Sometimes.
C. Never.
