Does my husband take me for granted? Since the question has arisen, maybe you are experiencing rudeness or indifference from your husband. Or perhaps it's just in your head! Family life consists of not only sex and love but also mutual respect.
So, if you are not feeling respected enough, take this Does My Husband Take Me for Granted Quiz and find out if your husband is taking you for granted.
1. Does he usually discuss with you his expenditures? (e.g., before purchasing an expensive product)
A. Yes, you always discuss your family budget
B. Yes, if it is about a really expensive thing, like a house or car
C. No, besides family budget, each of us has a separate budget
D. No, he never discusses
2. Is he usually asking your opinion before making decisions concerning the family.
A. Yes, he usually does.
B. Yes, but not always!
C. It depends! And, I don’t mind him making the decisions independently.
D. No, he never asks
3. Whenever you cook for him, he…
A. He appreciates you generously
B. He won’t praise me as such, but he washes the dishes after the meal
C. Promises to cook next time
D. Says nothing
4. When he has to stay at work longer, he…
A. Calls you immediately to inform
B. Excuses after coming home late
C. Invites you somewhere to hang out
D. Does nothing / He is disinterested to even talk about it.
5. After sex, your husband usually...
A. Tells how much he loves you
B. He needs his space, and so do I
C. Makes/brings you something to eat/drink
D. Falls asleep immediately
6. When your husband’s friends ask him to meet them on the weekend, but you have plans, he…
A. Arranges the meeting with friends on another weekend
B. Arranges your date on another day
C. He will take me along with him to meet his friends
D. He goes out with his friends
7. Whenever you argue, your husband…
A. Brings chocolate and flowers
B. He will argue at first, but then try to mollify me
C. Suggests to calm down and discuss the situation
D. Waits for an apology from you
8. Who is responsible for the apartment cleaning?
A. My husband
B. We share the responsibilities
C. We hire someone to clean the apartment
D. Always me!
9. If your husband is going out somewhere by car, does he ask if you need a lift?
A. Always asks
B. Sometimes he does
C. No, and I don’t expect it either. I can drive myself!
D. Never asks
10. When introducing you to the new group of people, your husband...
A. Introduces you to his friends
B. Will make you comfortable and introduce his friends to you
C. Makes a joke before starting introduction
D. He asks you to get acquainted with his friends by yourself
11. How often does your husband express appreciation or gratitude for the things you do?
A. Rarely or never
B. Occasionally
C. Sometimes, but not consistently
D. Frequently and sincerely
12. When making important decisions, does your husband consider your opinion and value your input?
A. No, he makes decisions without consulting me
B. He occasionally seeks my input, but it's not consistent
C. Sometimes, he considers my opinion, but not always
D. Yes, he actively involves me in decision-making processes
13. Does your husband make an effort to spend quality time with you and prioritize your relationship?
A. No, he rarely makes time for us
B. Occasionally, but not consistently
C. Sometimes, he plans special moments for us
D. Yes, he consistently makes an effort to spend quality time with me
14. How often does your husband show empathy and understanding when you're going through difficult times?
A. Rarely, he lacks empathy
B. Occasionally, but he often seems indifferent
C. Sometimes, he tries to understand but may not always succeed
D. Frequently, he shows genuine empathy and supports me emotionally
15. Does your husband actively contribute to household chores and responsibilities without being asked?
A. No, I have to ask or remind him to help
B. He helps occasionally when reminded
C. Sometimes, he takes the initiative to help
D. Yes, he consistently shares the household chores and responsibilities
