Every relationship goes through fights and arguments at some point. Sometimes they are a bunch of small arguments, and sometimes it is one big blowout argument and everything in between. But, even though we know every couple argues, how much arguing is considered too much? Unfortunately, there is not an easy answer to that question because each situation is unique. Still, there is definitely a difference between arguing to find common ground and fighting just to fight. Some arguments are more constructive than others, which makes them more beneficial to the relationship. So, are you trying to determine if you and your partner fight too much? Answer a few short questions and reveal the answer!
1. Do you feel like you argue more often than not?
A. No
B. Sometimes
C. Yes
2. Do you feel like your arguments end in a resolution most of the time?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. No
3. Do you feel like you have the same arguments over and over, without ever coming to a resolution or compromise?
A. Rarely
B. Sometimes
C. Often
4. How many positive interactions would you say you have with your partner in a typical week?
A. More than 10
B. 5-10
C. Less than 5
5. How many arguments would you say you have with your partner in a typical week?
A. Less than 5
B. 5-10
C. More than 10
6. Do you or your partner ever react to arguments by just shutting down to silence the other?
A. No
B. Sometimes
C. Yes, frequently
7. Do your arguments often turn into personal attacks on each other’s character?
A. No
B. Sometimes
C. Yes
8. Do your arguments often include sarcasm, low blows, and profanities?
A. No
B. Sometimes
C. Yes
9. Do arguments with your partner often turn into the blame game?
A. Rarely
B. Sometimes
C. Often
10. Do arguments often result in issues from the past resurfacing?
A. Rarely
B. Sometimes
C. Very Frequently
