Did I Marry The Wrong Person Quiz

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 9503 | Updated: Jan 22, 2025
1. Who wears the pants in the relationship?

Me
My partner
I don't know
Nobody
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Did I Marry The Wrong Person Quiz
What happens if you marry someone and later wonder if it might have been a mistake? People can change after marriage, but that doesn't mean you're trapped. While it's heartbreaking to feel wrong about someone you love, it’s a common experience... see more
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2. Do you feel that your partner respects you?

Sometimes
Only when they need something
No
Yes
3. Do you feel that your partner loves you?

Yes
I hope so
I think they do but you have your doubts
No, and I have proof because they told me so a while ago
4. Do you feel that your partner would go out of their way just to save you?

Yes
Not really
I hope so
No, but they would call for help
5. Do you think you would jump into shady waters just to save your partner?

Yes
Not really
I can't really say now
I'll try, and if I can't I'll ask for help
6. Do you think you would forgive your partner if they ever cheated on you?

Yes
No
I'll try to forgive them
Since no one is perfect, yes
7. Do you still remember the first time you met your spouse?

Yes, it's fresh into my mind like it happened yesterday
No
Not really
I can only remember a few important details like the cologne they were wearing and the name of the place where we met
8. Do you miss your spouse when they are away?

Yes, terribly
Yes, but it's only when I need something that only they can provide
Sometimes
No, I actually feel relieved
9. Are you always tempted to buy something for your spouse?

Yes, all the time
Yes, sometimes
No, because they would never return the favor
No, never
10. Are you excited when Valentine's day is at the corner?

Yes
No
Maybe
I'm nervous but not excited at all.
11. Do you always feel sad around them?

They make me sad
Sometimes
No
Yes
12. Are fights and disagreements a regular thing now?

I disagree because they are mostly wrong
Only sometimes
No
Yes
13. Do you and your spouse have conflicting priorities?

I believe serving my priorities will do good for the relationship
Some of them
No
Yes
14. Do you feel there’s nothing to talk about with your spouse?

I don’t participate because they don’t talk about anything substantial
Mostly
No
Yes
15. Do you both feel contempt or defensiveness in the face of each other’s “helpful” feedback?

I do
Most of the time
No
Yes
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