Jealousy is an impulsive feeling rooted in insecurity and trust issues. When you have insecurities within yourself and in your relationship, these feelings start taking over your thoughts and emotions at an unhealthy rate that starts to consume you. It can also grow into really an unhealthy pattern when paranoia and obsession start to set in, and once that happens, it reeks of havoc over your whole relationship.
Jealousy is also one of those things that certain people could be more prone to than others, depending on their feelings of inadequacy and past experiences in relationships. It usually develops out of negative feelings that convinces you that your relationship is dangerously at risk. It creates irrational thoughts and suspicions about your partner.
Do you think you may have taken it too far and are now at risk of completely destroying your relationship? Are you too jealous? Take this ‘Am I too jealous in my relationship quiz’ to find out.
1. Do you have an uncontrollable urge to contact your partner and question them when they are out with their friends?
A. No
B. Sometimes
C. Yes
2. Do you get suspicious any time your calls go unanswered, or your partner doesn’t immediately text you back?
A. No
B. Sometimes
C. Yes
3. Do you ever impose opinions about who your partner can talk to, where they can go or what they are allowed to do?
A. No
B. Sometimes
C. Yes
4. Do you get angry when your partner makes plans without you?
A. Yes, for sure
B. Yes, sometimes
C. Not really
5. Has your partner ever baselessly accused you of cheating on them?
A. Yes, for sure
B. Yes, once
C. Not really
6. Do you find that they find ways to discourage you from going out?
A. Yes, for sure
B. Yes, sometimes
C. Not really
7. Do you often feel the need to explain your feelings and actions due to their reactions?
A. Yes, for sure
B. Yes, sometimes
C. Not really
8. Does your partner have an extreme interest in your romantic past?
A. Yes, for sure
B. Yes, sometimes
C. Not really
9. Do you argue with your partner whenever they come home from being out and interrogate them to find out everything?
A. No
B. Sometimes
C. Yes
10. Do you stalk your partner's social media or insist on your partner posting pictures with the two of you together?
A. No
B. Sometimes
C. Yes
11. Does your jealousy or suspicion of your partner ever completely ruin your whole night together?
A. No
B. Sometimes
C. Yes
12. Does your jealousy seem to come out of nowhere and escalate to an uncontrollable point extremely fast?
A. No
B. Sometimes
C. Yes
13. Do you have your partner’s passwords to monitor their communications whenever you want?
A. No
B. Sometimes
C. Yes
14. Have you ever threatened to do something harmful to yourself, your partner, or someone else if your partner ever left you?
A. No
B. Sometimes
C. Yes
15. Do you get uneasy/jealous any time you are not spending time with your partner?
A. No
B. Sometimes
C. Yes
