Do you ever feel like you try too hard in your relationship to make things work?Do you ever feel like you care about your partner and your relationship way more than your partner does?
It can be an awful feeling when you start to feel like you are giving more to your relationship than your partner or that you love your partner more than they love you. It can also be very difficult to bring this topic up to your partner, especially if you are not sure if this is just how you feel or if it is really true.
Every relationship needs balance and for each partner to give equally. Neither person’s needs, feelings or thoughts are less important than the other persons and they should never feel that way.
Take this ‘Do I love my partner more than they love me’ quiz to know the truth about your dynamics with your partner.
1. Do you feel like your partner always has to have the last word in arguments and doesn’t seem to care if they say things that hurt your feelings?
A. Yes
B. No
2. Do you feel like your partner usually calls the shots in your relationship?
A. Yes
B. No
3. Do you ever feel like you are taken for granted?
A. Yes
B. No
4. Do you ever feel unfulfilled, frustrated or lonely in your relationship?
A. Yes
B. No
5. Do you feel like you put more effort in trying to spend time together than they do?
A. Yes
B. No
6. Do you feel like you love your partner more than they love you?
A. Yes
B. No
7. Does your partner care about your life as much as you care about theirs?
A. No
B. Yes
8. Do you feel like your partner always keeps you in mind when they are making decisions?
A. No
B. Yes
9. Does your partner show you affection through physical intimacy, kind gestures and compliments as much as you show to them?
A. No
B. Yes
10. Do you end up taking care of them most of the time?
A. Yes
B. No
11. Who calls and texts the other more in the relationship?
A. I do
B. They do
12. Who spends more time with their friends, without the other?
A. They do
B. We both do that
13. Who relies more on the other for emotional validation?
A. I think I do
B. We both do
14. Who seems to have gained more emotionally from being nurtured in the relationship?
A. They have
B. I'm not sure
15. Do you ever feel like your partner is unwilling to compromise and doesn’t take your needs and/or wants into consideration as much as you do theirs?
A. Yes
B. No
