Am I Defensive Quiz

10 Questions
Am I Defensive Quiz
People are defensive all the time. We feel the innate need to always come to our own rescue and try to protect ourselves from the mean scrutinizing eyes of other people. But sometimes, we take it too far and refuse to admit our faults. And this could have a negative effect on our relationship, making even small disagreements turn into serious arguments. Do you think you are too defensive. Take this Read more “Am I defensive” Quiz to find out: Read less

Questions Excerpt

1. Do any of your arguments escalate?

A. Yes, all the time!

B. Sometimes

C. No, never

2. Do you think people like getting on your nerves for no reason?

A. Yes

B. Not sure

C. No

3. Do you think you’re in the right most of the time?

A. Yes, for sure

B. Yes, but I’m not so sure sometimes

C. No, sometimes I’m most definitely in the wrong

4. Have people told you you’re very stubborn?

A. Yes, most of my friends have told me that

B. Yes, my friends tell me that sometimes

C. No, nobody has ever told me that

5. Do you hate it when people point out your faults?

A. Yes, obviously

B. Yes, sometimes

C. No, I encourage criticism

6. When people judge you, how do you take it?

A. You yell at them. It’s really none of their business

B. I just nod and move on. Their criticisms mean nothing

C. I listen and try to think it through. They might have good intentions

7. Do you feel like people judge you constantly?

A. Yes, all the time

B. Yes, sometimes

C. No, never

8. Do you like it when people try to give you pointers on how you can improve?

A. Of course, criticism is very helpful

B. Only when they’re qualified enough to know what they’re talking about

C. No, people who try to give “pointers” are obviously being condescending

9. Do you think people always blame you when things go wrong?

A. Yes

B. Not sure

C. No

10. Do you find it hard to admit when you’re wrong?

A. Yes, it’s the hardest thing ever

B. Yes, it’s tough but I try to do it anyway

C. No, not really. I’m good at owning up to my mistakes


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