Is my partner an extrovert or an introvert? The difference between the two might not be as obvious as it seems and it can often define what their needs, desires and dislikes are when it comes to relationships. If you know their personality type, it can inform the way you interact with them and ensure that you don’t have unrealistic expectations from them.
Are you with an introvert or someone who is just shy? Or do they have very low self-esteem? If you're trying to get a full picture of how introverted and extroverted they are, take this ‘Am I Dating an Introvert’ quiz.
1. When it comes to small talk, do they...
A. Dive right in comfortably
B. Hesitate or stay silent
C. It depends
2. Your partner is planning a night out. Which option sounds more fun for them?
A. Dinner with their best friend, or just two of us.
B. They prefer any activity with a large group
C. Hanging out with me and a few friends
3. If your partner was forced to choose one, which option would they choose?
A. A weekend filled with plans to do things with other people
B. A weekend alone, packed with calmness
C. A romantic weekend with me
4. As a student, they would rather…
A. listen to an interesting and informative lecture
B. Exchange texts with me
C. Be a part of a lively discussion
5. If they attend a lot of events, how would they feel generally?
A. Energized and ready for more
B. Exhausted and desperately needing a nap
C. Completely tired and drained
6. Which word most describes them?
A. Quiet and calm
B. Talkative and energetic
C. I’m not sure as I don’t know them very well yet
7. Let's say they wrote a poem. What would they do next?
A. Keep it to themselves
B. Show it to me and their friends.
C. I have no idea.
8. How do they feel about meeting your friends?
A. We’ve not talked about them meeting my friends
B. They seem excited about it
C. They seem to be a bit nervous about this
9. Does your partner need some time by himself, every now and then?
A. Yes, for sure
B. No, not really
C. I’m not sure
10. Does your partner usually avoid meeting new sets of people?
A. Yes, for sure
B. No, they love spending time with new people
C. It depends
11. Does small talk come naturally to your partner?
A. No, not at all
B. Yes, they find it incredibly easy
C. I'm not sure
12. Does your partner get incredibly quiet after an intense day around other people?
A. Yes, this happens all the time
B. No, they get even more energized
C. I'm not sure
13. Do they screen all their calls, at all times?
A. Yes, they never pick up calls from unknown numbers
B. No, not really
C. I'm not sure
14. How many friends do they have?
A. They have a few friends
B. They have many friends
C. I’m not sure
15. Do they need a moment to think before answering a question?
A. Yes, definitely
B. Usually
C. Not constantly
