Marriage is a sacred bond between two people. But if you are at a point where you are wondering, “Am I a bad husband?” or “Is she unhappy with me?” then you have landed on the right page.
We have designed this quiz for you to get some clarity in your marriage. Relationships are organic and need nurturing for you to turn a beautiful house into a welcoming home. If you want a safe space to give a thought to your marriage, take this quiz and take an advance.
1. Your wife bought crystal glasses for both of you to share a good whiskey. How would you react to the purchase?
A. I would wash the glasses and pour us a drink
B. I would politely ask her to mind her expenses
C. I am most likely to not react
D. I get really angry when she buys expensive crockery
2. What do you do if your wife disagrees with your opinion?
A. I feel sad and disconnected
B. I try to explain my side to her
C. I really do not mind disagreements
D. This often leads to some heated quarrels
3. Do you share a good intimate relationship?
A. It is not the only aspect of our relationship
B. I hate to admit, but no
C. Sometimes, if we haven’t fought
D. I like BDSM, she does not, so I explore
4. Do you watch movies or TV series together?
A. I don’t like what she likes
B. That’s our biggest stress relief activity
C. Sometimes, but not everyday
D. The only thing we have watched together was our wedding video
5. You had a really bad day at work. How does your behaviour change at home?
A. I would just come home and take a nice long bath
B. I might take it out on her
C. I leave my work at our doorstep
D. I would walk straight into my room, and would not want to speak to anyone
6. Do you know your wife’s dreams and ambitions?
A. I have never really given it a thought
B. Yes, I do, and I support her
C. I have many other things to worry about
D. We have different dreams, but that’s alright
7. Have you ever cheated on your wife?
A. No, never
B. Once, but I shouldn’t have
C. Often, but I am not sorry
D. Not yet
8. How do you handle conflicts in your relationship?
A. We talk it out calmly and find a solution
B. We avoid confrontation and let things simmer down
C. We argue and yell until one of us gives in
D. We seek the help of a therapist or mediator
9. How do you show your love and affection towards your wife?
A. Through physical touch and intimacy
B. By doing small acts of kindness and thoughtful gestures
C. By saying "I love you" frequently
D. I don't really show my love and affection
10. How do you handle household chores and responsibilities?
A. We split them equally and take turns
B. I do most of the work while she focuses on her career
C. She does most of the work while I focus on my hobbies
D. We hire someone to do the chores for us
11. How do you handle financial decisions in your relationship?
A. We make decisions together and discuss our budget regularly
B. I make all the financial decisions without consulting her
C. She makes all the financial decisions without consulting me
D. We have separate finances and make our own decisions
12. How do you handle disagreements about sex and intimacy?
A. We communicate openly and try to find a compromise
B. We avoid the topic and hope it resolves itself
C. We have different preferences and rarely have sex
D. We seek the help of a sex therapist or counselor
13. What do you think about children?
A. We do not want to have babies
B. I do not want children, but she does
C. I want my children to carry my name forward
D. We love children
14. How do you behave around her parents?
A. We don’t pay regular visits but stay in touch
B. I don’t like it when she visits her parents
C. I don’t like my wife’s parents
D. I treat them as my own parents
15. Do you share the household chores?
A. Of course, we do
B. Thanks for the reminder
C. Not really
D. I hate housework
