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David Essel

David Essel
Counselor, M.S

Premier Executive Center, 5237 Summerlin Commons Blvd. Suite 234,
Fort Myers FlorideUnited States,  33907
David Essel, M.S. is the best selling author of 9 books, a counselor and master life coach and inspirational speaker whose work is endorsed by celebrities like Jenny McCarthy, Wayne Dyer, Kenny Loggins and Mark Victor Hansen. David accepts new clients monthly via Skype and phone sessions from anywhere.

Contributions by David Essel

Men: If You Want to Become the Best Lover Ever, Follow These 4 Tips

Men: If You Want to Become the Best Lover Ever, Follow These 4 Tips

Which sounds great, but the only problem with this is that no one teaches men how to accomplish this goal. In 1996, I had a client who had issues in the ...
Raising Kids Today Is a Lot Different Than Raising Kids 20 Years Ago

Raising Kids Today Is a Lot Different Than Raising Kids 20 Years Ago

If you have kids right now, anywhere between the ages of two and 18, how do you feel you re doing as a parent? Have you given them space to grow as individuals? ...
Solo Sex: When You’re in a Relationship?

Solo Sex: When You’re in a Relationship?

Many times, we will pair up with individuals that have an incredible amount of compatibility with our goals in life, interests, and agreeable personalities ...
The Big Lie: The Purpose of Life, Is to Be in Love

The Big Lie: The Purpose of Life, Is to Be in Love

We are bombarded every day, magazines, television ads, radio interviews, Internet blogs. The real purpose of life is to find your soulmate and live happily ...
Can One Person Really Save a Crappy Marriage

Can One Person Really Save a Crappy Marriage

There are more marriages that are dysfunctional and unhealthy then there are marriages that are thriving in today s society. The reasons for that are many, ...
Dating after Divorce - How Long Should You Wait?

Dating after Divorce - How Long Should You Wait?

The divorce is final now, how long should you wait until you get into the world of dating? It arrives in the mail today. Finally. You are legally divorced. ...
Recovering From an Emotional Affair? Follow These Tips

Recovering From an Emotional Affair? Follow These Tips

But I never had sex with him, yes we talked, yes we texted behind your back, but I never even kissed him. This is a common phrase, given by people who ...
Stop Faking Orgasm to Save Your Marriage

Stop Faking Orgasm to Save Your Marriage

Healthy sex, healthy relationships. Right? But what if you find yourself in a marriage or a long term commitment, and your sexual drives are different ...
Married to an Alcoholic? How Long Do You Stay?

Married to an Alcoholic? How Long Do You Stay?

On any given morning, someone is waking up next to an alcoholic. Maybe you got into an argument with them the night before. Or maybe they got into an argument ...
The Engagement Ring Dilemma - Is It a Sign of Love? or Status?

The Engagement Ring Dilemma - Is It a Sign of Love? or Status?

At the very time that you re reading this article, several women are becoming engaged to hopefully the man of their dreams. And when he proposes and opens ...
Understanding Dysfunction in a Love Relationship

Understanding Dysfunction in a Love Relationship

Dysfunction in a love relationship? Who is really to blame? It happens all the time, as a matter fact dysfunction in love relationships is so common that ...
4 Remarkable Ways to Being Happily Single

4 Remarkable Ways to Being Happily Single

Single and unhappy? Oh my God, please quit dating! Millions of people reading this article, who are single, maybe disgusted with what they are about to ...
Things You Must Consider Before Tying the Knot

Things You Must Consider Before Tying the Knot

It s so sad, but true, over 50 of all marriages in the United States will end in divorce. The statistics haven t change for years, and it s so strange ...
Can Living Separately Be a Good Idea for Your Marriage?

Can Living Separately Be a Good Idea for Your Marriage?

There is a stigma in relationships that must be shattered, in order for us to move forward as a civilization. Less judgment. Less opinionated. When it ...
Looking for Love? How to Know Who’s Right, or Wrong for You

Looking for Love? How to Know Who’s Right, or Wrong for You

Love is in the air, it s always in the air. Millions of people today are looking for, hoping for, wishing for that magical partner to sweep them off their ...
A Fresh, New Insight into Unconditional Love

A Fresh, New Insight into Unconditional Love

Many of us spout out these words as effortlessly as anything else you might say in life. Most of us claim unconditional love when we have truly no idea ...
Thinking About Having an Affair? Here Are Some Things You Must Consider

Thinking About Having an Affair? Here Are Some Things You Must Consider

According to some studies, about 40 of men and 30 of women in relationships will at some point cheat on their partners. The percentage of women having ...
Red Alert! Dating and Looking for Better Prospects Simultaneously?

Red Alert! Dating and Looking for Better Prospects Simultaneously?

There are so many people these days in the world of dating that aren t actually looking for any type of serious relationship, they re just here to chase ...
3 Key Tips to Make This Valentine’s Day Sexier

3 Key Tips to Make This Valentine’s Day Sexier

Valentine s Day is right around the corner, and are you going to do the same thing you do every year? What is it, 12 roses to her office or home? Or maybe ...
Divorce Prevention? Follow These Steps

Divorce Prevention? Follow These Steps

50 of the married couples in the United States, if not more, get divorced. The statistics haven t changed for years. But does it have to be that way? It ...
4 Tops Keys to Reduce the Divorce Rate in America

4 Tops Keys to Reduce the Divorce Rate in America

A study suggests that approximately 50 of married couples get divorced in the United States. That statistic has been unfortunately strong and secure for ...
Is It Unconditional Love? or Maybe Something Else?

Is It Unconditional Love? or Maybe Something Else?

For centuries, the perfect end result of any romantic relationship is unconditional love. We ve read it in magazine articles. Love novels. Movies. Blogs ...
4 Keys to Think About Before Deciding to Staying Married for the Kid’s Sake

4 Keys to Think About Before Deciding to Staying Married for the Kid’s Sake

Thousands of moms and dads face this question every day. Should they stay in a loveless, negative marriage in hopes that this decision will be best for ...
Overcoming Codependency in Your Relationship

Overcoming Codependency in Your Relationship

Millions of men and women today will wake up, get out of bed, and do everything in their power not to rock the boat in their relationship. They might be ...
Your Partner Just Cheated on You: Do You Stay?

Your Partner Just Cheated on You: Do You Stay?

Affairs in relationships happen every day. It s one of the turning points in relationships and marriages for many people, a turning point that potentially ...
A New Approach to Counseling

A New Approach to Counseling

Today, millions of couples will wake up and realize they need counseling in order to save their relationship. Only a small percentage of them will reach ...
4 Keys to Add Spice and Excitement in an Intimate Relationship

4 Keys to Add Spice and Excitement in an Intimate Relationship

Let s face it, after six months, six years or 25 years most couples move away from an exciting intimate relationship to one of boredom. Inadequacy. Frustration. ...
How to Positively Turn Back Time in Your Marriage?

How to Positively Turn Back Time in Your Marriage?

Is your marriage suffering right now? Have you lost the zip and excitement that you had years ago? It doesn t matter if you ve only been married for six ...
4 Most Important Keys To Get The Fire Back in Your Sex Life

4 Most Important Keys To Get The Fire Back in Your Sex Life

The four most important keys, in order to get back fire in your sex life! Have you ever reached the point of being bored with the sex life you have with ...