5 Tips That Can Help You Maintain Romance After Marriage

Knowing how to maintain the spark long after vows have been taken is the secret to a healthy marriage. Building a life together and maybe having a family is not a reason to let romance fizzle.

Of course, life can get in the way and factors may force sex and romance after marriage to the back burner but it is never wise to allow that to go on too long. Keeping the romance alive may sound difficult for couples struggling with this issue but doing so is quite easy.

You just have to be proactive in making your marriage more romantic. Here are 5 tips you can implement to maintain romance after marriage.

1. Pay attention to your appearance

Those who are married tend to get very comfortable and stop putting as much effort into their physical appearance as they did before marriage. Although it is great to know that your spouse loves you no matter how you look, we are all physical creatures.

In order to turn up the romance, a few notches take the extra time to look good for your partner. Not only does putting extra care in your appearance boost sexual attraction but it shows your spouse that you care.

2. Express your love to maintain the romance after marriage

The key to romance after marriage is expressing love on a regular basis. Instead of the usual, “I love you”, express your love even further!

Let your spouse know how glad you are to be married to him/her, use gentle touch to express love, kiss more often (not just a peck) and hold hands just because, doing so encourages closeness as well as romance.

You can try something old school and write your partner a letter or a poem, add some flowers in the mix and witness the romance change in your marriage.

3. Set aside some alone time

Busy careers, kids, and other factors prevent married couples from spending as much time together as they should. Because of this, you have to make the effort to get that alone time. If you are wondering how to maintain romance in marriage then you need to set aside some alone time for you and your spouse.

Plan a date night, take a walk together after dinner, meet up in the afternoon for lunch or get up early on a Saturday morning, and enjoy a private breakfast in bed. Put in the extra effort and make the most out of your one on one time.

Another important thing you need to keep in mind is to minimize or even ditch any distractions during your alone time. It is very easy to get distracted with your phones, computers, and other electronic devices.

To maintain romance after marriage you need to make a conscious effort to put aside your phones or any other form of distraction, at least for an hour in a day. During that time focus on your partner, talk to them, and most importantly listen.

4. Try new activities

Spending time together with your partner when done the right way can do wonders for your romantic life. Find activities from your hobbies and try them out together, this way both of you get an opportunity to experience something new.

Be it yoga, traveling, sports, or arts and crafts – trying and learning new things together allows you to learn new things about each other and in turn achieve a shared experience. Breaking out of a routine is essential for a continued romance in marriage.

Romance after marriage entails more effort from both the partners and trying new things and activities can be very productive for you not only as a couple but also as an individual.

5. Experiment with sex

Overtime sex in a marriage becomes very monotonous and couples stop experimenting with new things. Overcoming this monotony is very essential to maintain romance after marriage. Here are a few tips on how to engage in romantic sex after marriage.

Maintaining romance with husband after marriage or romance with boyfriend after marriage needs a little intrigue and pizzazz. 

Surprise your spouse with sexting and try to be as explicit as possible, you can even send a steamy photo. Be mischievous, flirty, which in turn would help you reanimate how you felt at the beginning of your relationship.

Be more adventurous and try new sex positions, toys, or do it at different places in the house. Read erotic stories or novels, watch intimate porn, and communicate with each other on what you might be interested in trying sexually.

For romance after marriage, focus more on the quality of sex rather than the quantify. Even though, quantity has its own benefits but always try to amp up your sex life with new ideas. Playing dress up or doing a striptease also goes a long way in breaking the routine and naughty fantasies.

The romance does not have to die after you are married. Follow these 5 tips and your romance will stay alive and everlasting throughout your marriage for years to come!

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Mary Fisher

Mary Fisher is a writer experienced with helping couples understand marriage, love and relationships. She completed her studies in 2011 and is currently involved in writing... Read more articles on intimacy, relationships and family. Read less