60 Sexy Goodnight Texts to Get Your Spouse Hot and Bothered

What’s more romantic than being the last thing your partner thinks about before they go to bed? Nothing! That’s why we’ve come up with 60 sexy goodnight texts for you to send.

No matter if you are looking for ‘sexy good night message for her’ or ‘sexy good night texts for him.’ 

Sending a sexy goodnight text should come from your heart (or other regions!). But sometimes we all need a little inspiration to get our naughty minds working.

Whether you’re married and your spouse is spending the night away, or you are texting your crush, we have the sexy goodnight texts to get your special someone thinking about you.

Gone are the days of tapping your fingers and waiting for your spouse to respond to your message.

Here are 60 good night text messages for her and goodnight messages for him to keep your spouse hot and wanting for you. 

These 60 sexy good night texts are sure to have your spouse texting back asap:

1. Help me have dirty dreams tonight and tell me a slutty goodnight story 😉

2. Hey gorgeous. I want to hear your goodnight fantasy. If you’re lucky, maybe I’ll make it come true tomorrow.

3. I hope you’re ready to tilt your phone away from anyone you’re standing next to because my goodnight texts are about to get naughty.

4. I would sleep so much better if you were here doing naughty things to me. Goodnight babe.

5. I wish you were here with me so we could stay up all night (hint: we wouldn’t be pillow fighting!)

6. I can’t sleep. I keep thinking about that time that we… [insert a sexy memory]

7. Just a sexy goodnight text to let you know I’ll be thinking about you in every position before I go to sleep.

8. Have I ever mentioned that I sleep naked? Well, goodnight!

9. Just a reminder that if you dream about me tonight, I like… [insert sexual kink here]

10. I wish you were here [insert a selfie of you in your pajamas/boxers/lingerie while in bed].

11. If you were here right now, what oh what could we do to tuck ourselves out before bed?

12. Doing some last-minute “date night” planning for tomorrow before bed [insert photos of sex toys/lingerie/restraints/lube/condoms/etc. laid out on the bed]

13. I’m feeling really adventurous tonight 😉 Wish you were here! Goodnight sexy.

14. Goodnight handsome. I wish I could feel your body pressed up to mine tonight.

15. Is it too late to be this turned on? I wish you were here right now. Goodnight babe.

16. Wanna show me what you’re wearing before bed?

17. I’m so sad that I can’t be in your bed right now. Only [X] days left until I get to do whatever I want with you.

18. I bet you look so sexy cuddled in your blankets. But not as sexy as you’d look cuddled next to me.

19. If I were in your bed tonight, I would be rocking your world 😉

20. I’m just over here playing with my toys before bed, wishing they were you. Jealous? 😉

21. I just wanted to send you the naughtiest goodnight emoji party ever [insert silly but suggestive emoji pairings]

22. Goodnight sweetheart, I hope you have sexy dreams of me.

23. Are you too tired to text? Because I’m ready to play.

24. Just thought I’d let you see what I’m wearing to bed [insert photo of you only wearing a bedsheet] Goodnight!

25. If you were here right now, your clothes wouldn’t stand a chance.

26. Hey gorgeous, say goodnight to your [preferred sexy body part] for me 😉

27. Sending out my goodnight wishes to the sexiest [guy/girl] I’ve ever laid eyes on.

28. Hey, sexy, just wanted to say goodnight, sweet dreams, and that I can’t stop thinking about you.

29. Nothing could be better right now than falling asleep next to you.

30. I wish I was there to tuck you in. I would be doing all sorts of dirty things to you.

31. What did you get up to before bed tonight? I’d tell you mine, but it’s pretty X-rated 😉

32. I’m so turned on right now, I wish you were here. You have no idea the things I would let you do to me.

33. I hope you didn’t have a shower before bed, because these texts are about to get dirty.

34. These are the 3 things I would do to you if I was in bed next to you. Imagine them all while you’re falling asleep.

35. Just thought I’d send you a sexy goodnight text reminding you how I’m going to blow your… world 😉 tomorrow. Goodnight!

36. Let’s make a deal. If either of us has a crazy sex dream tonight, we have to act it out together tomorrow 😉

37. I can’t sleep. I can’t stop thinking about how amazing last night was.

38. Snuggling a pillow just isn’t the same as snuggling you. It’s missing all the fun parts 😉

39. I’m about to tell you a bedtime story you will never forget.

40. Hey sexy, just thought I’d give you a little inspiration to dream about me tonight [insert sexy/suggestive photo]

41. I hope you get a good night’s rest because I have big, naughty plans for you tomorrow 😉

42. Do you ever have sex dreams about me? Tonight might be your lucky night.

43. I want you so bad right now; I can hardly sleep.

44. Want to play ‘Simon Says’ before bed? I’ll go first.

45. I can’t stop thinking about [sexy/explicit thing you did together one time] I look forward to duplicating that memory the next time I’m in your bed.

46. Hey you, I couldn’t sleep until I told you how badly I want you right now… good night. 😉

47.  I really wish you were here next to me in bed… naked.

48. Just thought you should know, you are my favorite dirty thought… nite nite!

49. I’m in bed over here; you’re in bed over there… One of us is in the wrong place.

50. I wish I could kiss you good night right now…. and not on your lips. 😉

51. Too bad you’re not here right now… Oh, wow, I better stop thinking about this or I’ll never get to sleep.

52. Hey babe, by the way, next time I see you, I want to do [fill in the blank] to me… kay… g’ nite. 😉

53. Babe, if you were here with me right now, I would rip off your clothes and do insane things to your body. But you’re not, so… sleep tight!

54. My bed feels empty without you in it… so do I.

55. Are you going to think about me before you fall asleep tonight? I hope so…

56. Dream big, handsome. Sleep tight and dream big.

57. The only thing I hate about falling asleep is that it’s time I don’t get to spend with you!

58. Take a look at the moon outside. It’s beautiful. Wish I could be looking at it with you

59. Your handsome face is in my head before I fall asleep… again…

60. I just noticed that my bed is a lot more comfortable with you in it.

When it comes to sending sexy goodnight texts, remember that nudity is not required (and often, it is a very, very bad idea).

You can send a photo of some lingerie laid out on the bed or a shirtless photo of yourself (if you’re a man) and make a sexy point without having to drop your drawers.