People nowadays are so busy with their careers and professional lives, they often make their choice towards hookups at a younger age and start thinking about marriage only after the 30s. As to 40+, people get married that late for two reasons: they are either workaholics or already divorced.
There are more categories of mature women, so how to meet them for marriage?
Does she hide having a boyfriend?
First of all, it’s hard to guess whether an older woman is married or not. She may also have many admirers or a stable partner in real life so she’s just seeking new impressions.
How to define that?
Just pay attention to how much time she is spending on your communication and how often she’s busy. If she is suddenly busy all the time and she never shares the reasons for that, it’s most probably a man nearby.
Another important moment is, does she make any hints that she expects serious steps from you?
She can be marriage-minded by upbringing or just desperate to find someone quickly because of her age, but also she can be ignorant towards the marriage topic or strangely enthusiastic and pushy.
Learn her reasons. If you have different reasoning, it might lead to different views on marriage as well.
How to deal with the child issue?
Mature women might have a child already. Many underestimate this, but it’s the most important part of her life.
Not only it’s crucial to find a common language with a kid, but taking them into consideration should be your tactic from the very beginning. Ask about their age, hobbies, and most of all their talents, call all of their photos cute – and you’ll make her heart melt.
When you meet in real, bring something little for him, not only the flowers for her. If his birthday is any close, better to present something impressive. Many forget to do that and it’s their mistake.
If marriage is your focus and you’re not there just for fun, show your appreciation of all family members, not just your male interest in a hot chick.
She has a personality and her own life story
If she still doesn’t have children in her 40s, find out whether she wants them. If so, better prepare yourself! Making a baby in 40+ is never easy, and she will expect you to show the maximum of serious attitude.
A healthy diet, medical tests, accompanying and supporting her during all the process, and lots of patience – that’s what is waiting for you in near future. She may also be too tedious asking you about your genetic heritage and overall health, which isn’t romantic at all. But that’s the life of mature “young” parents!
The third variant is that she doesn’t want children at all.
Of course, the majority of childfree women are under 30. They travel, enjoy life, and explore things. But career-oriented business ladies of older age may be too busy and self-centered for having kids as well.
In this case, she just wants a life partner who could be a decent equal or a younger toy boy. Make sure from the beginning what her needs are and whether you are corresponding to them.
Mature women and sex
Dating a marriage-minded woman in her 40s means a lot of sex.
Some of them may be old-fashioned and demand some courtship first, but most of matures just don’t want to lose their time to games. They make sex like it’s the last day of their life! Plus, they want to fully test a man’s skills before getting engaged or married. They can be strict examiners so it’s easy to fail!
They analyze all: one’s eating habits, generosity, style of clothes, and much more! However, if one is able to satisfy them and not to look at younger girls in their presence, many flaws will be forgiven.
Where to meet them?
Today people spend all their life with smartphones and iPads, and older generations aren’t an exception. Mature women are at the peak of their careers and self-realization paths so dating applications are surely their choice. There are many mature dating apps that are helpful and fair.
Some of them, state from the beginning that their main purpose is bringing people together for marriage so no one’s feelings will be hurt or confused.
It’s easy to choose a good app:
- Pick the one that is focused on your geographic location or has a worldwide database
- Go for elegantly designed ones and avoid those with nearly pornographic content
- Read the reviews first. Try to find success stories connected with this app
- Analyze within the first weeks whether it’s just commercial or genuine
- When the real-time meeting is arranged, act like described above
It’s easy to meet mature women for marriage if you follow all the tips and use common sense. Marriage is a serious decision so every step that leads to it, should be pre-planned and well-considered.