Sometimes a man meets a woman who loves him madly. It is sad that this man doesn’t care about her feelings and shows an attitude, awful enough to kill their relationship.
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Those who don’t realize how important is to appreciate your partner, my advice is to show their love as soon as possible. Don’t let your lady go away by making ignorant relationship mistakes.
Show her your feelings and never make these relationship mistakes I will talk about in the text.
1. Interrupting and ignoring her
Orders like ‘Shut up!’ or ‘Close your mouth’ when she tries to say something, are extremely inappropriate and often used. It is the worst mistakes men commonly make in relationships.
It will be even a bigger humiliation for your lady if you express this behavior in front of people. Mocking her with a sarcastic tone and lifting your hand as a sign for your girl to stop her talking is the beginning of the end.
No man or woman will be ok with such an attitude. Such behavior clearly shows your mate that she means nothing to you and you see yourself as something more than her.
Your relationship will be destroyed if you continue like this. There is another way of course. Try to be kind and remind yourself about the good moments you both had.
Listen to her and try to be gentle. Sometimes, our girls just need to talk with us. They want to feel that there is someone who respects them.
2. Underestimating everything she does
One of the biggest mistake men make in a relationship, is underestimating the women no matter what she tries.
If this woman loves to draw, instead of support, she will receive mocking and her mate will tell her she is not good enough and has no talent.
Sometimes a woman can even hear she is not smart enough and under her man’s level. If she takes these insults seriously, it will make her feel useless.
Feeling useless is one of the worst nightmares for both men and women. I will not exaggerate if I say that it is unhealthy and even fatal. Save your partner from this horrible feeling.
You can just be gentler. When your lady cooked something for you with love and desire, just don’t criticize her. When she dreams about something, dream with her.
Support her. Everybody has to follow his or her dream. People are together to support each other.
3. Rejecting your lady
You are watching TV on the couch like Al Bundy or scrolling on your phone like a teenager, looking for the latest Facebook news. The girl comes and holds you. She is smiling tenderly and wants your attention.
Being dismissive towards their women is the worst relationship mistakes men make and here how they do it.
No reaction. You are sitting with a dull indifferent expression as if she is not there.
Your answer is ‘I am watching TV’ or ‘I am busy’. This cue is enough to kill her desire to be close to you.
‘I am resting.’ ‘Don’t touch me.’ ‘Get out.’ Of course, again we still have the indifferent expression.
Each of these reactions is a professional experienced relationship killer. It means that you have your lady for something granted.
She may even think that you cheat at her. It is the worst behavior to show. Sooner or later she will become really tired and you will become a really lonely man.
4. Turning past into present or the unhealthy jealousy
Unhealthy jealousy is a definite relationship killer. Most of us have ex-girlfriends and boyfriends, ex-wives and ex-husbands. If you are jealous of them, it is not ok for your own self-confidence.
Such jealousy appears usually when an ex-boyfriend is a successful man. Why she is with me when she could be with him. The answer is, when she is with you, you are better.
If she broke up with him, he has a problem. You have to be confident. You are the winner. Don’t live in fear. In this way, you also make your girl to freak out.
No man or woman will be happy if he or she is suspected of cheating all the time. When your partner repeats this over and over again, this suspicion can drive you crazy.
It is not the right way to show your love but it is a certain way to lose your girl. Try to trust her. When people are together, it is better to believe each other. Otherwise, there is no point.
Also watch: How to Avoid Common Relationship Mistakes
5. Selfish at first sight
This is one of the worst enemies of the relationship. There is no place for selfishness when two people love each other. It is a disease and it will kill your relationship fast or slow.
You have a conversation with your girl where to go for a date. The place is not so close to your home. You try to persuade her to see each other somewhere else because it is too far for you.
After she made some shopping your lady asks you to come and help her. Your answer is that you are busy.
She asks you for a glass of water or to go and buy her a coffee. You refuse to do it and tell her you are tired or directly say ‘Do it yourself’.
Talking about the worst relationship mistakes, where one or both of you is selfish is a mistake.
Guys do not ever appreciate your ladies after you already lost them. Don’t be a part of this stupid cliché. Love them when they are with you. Some people you meet once in a lifetime.
Make your woman feel special because they really are. Show them the best of you. Just love them and try your hardest to not make such terrible relationship mistakes.
My name is Kiril Kirov. I am twenty -nine years old and married. I love to spend time with my family and I also love to write.
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