What Is Your Sexual Style Quiz

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 2932 | Updated: Jun 17, 2024
1. What do you feel you and your partner value most as a couple?

Commitment and security
Intimacy and equality
Experiences and feelings
Passion and Eroticism
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What Is Your Sexual Style Quiz
Different elements of sexual experiences and preferences make up a person’s sexual style. These range from how a person chooses to initiate sex, what their role is in a sexual relationship, how they experience pleasure, which sexual acts provid... see more
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2. What type of gender roles exists during sex?

Traditional gender roles
Comfortable discussing “his”, “her”, and “our” sexual desires
We have equal roles
Anything goes
3. Do you and your partner ever use pornography or toys during sex?

No
Rarely
Sometimes
Yes, frequently
4. Do you feel it is one partner’s job to please the other partner in the bedroom?

It’s the man’s job to please their woman
We are both responsible for our own sexual experiences
We both do whatever we can to please one another
We are both free to request of our partner what will satisfy us and both carry out those requests to ensure we are satisfied
5. Is sex a priority in your relationship?

Not really
Sometimes
Yes, most of the time
Yes, all of the time
6. On a scale from 1-4, 1 being the least spontaneous and adventurous and 4 being the most, how spontaneous and adventurous is your sex life?

1
3
2
4
7. On a scale from 1-4, 1 being the least emotional and passionate and 4 being the most, how emotional and passionate do you feel you both are as a couple?

1
3
2
4
8. How in tune do you feel you are with your partner’s sexual feelings and preferences?

I am not sure, I don’t believe it is anything out of the ordinary
I always make sure I stay in tune with my partner’s sexual feelings and preferences because they are always different
We are both extremely in tune with each other’s sexual feelings and preferences, we know each other extremely well and they generally stay the same
I feel like we both are willing to explore and be unpredictable in our sex life, so there really aren’t specific preferences
9. What do you think is most important in the bedroom?

Affection and intimacy
Satisfaction and equality
Meeting my partner’s needs
Spontaneity, adventure, and passion
10. Do you think you and your partner are both satisfied with your sex life?

One of us more than the other
Yes, most of the time
I hope so, but I am not sure
Definitely
11. How do you prefer to initiate intimacy with your partner?

I stick to what’s familiar and comfortable for both of us
I usually follow my partner’s lead or cues
I look for a deep emotional connection before making a move
I openly express my desires and appreciate when my partner does the same
12. What role does communication play in your intimacy?

We communicate primarily about practicalities or preferences
Our communication is about balancing each other’s needs
We share our deepest feelings and desires to strengthen our bond
We are very vocal about what we feel and want in the moment
13. How do you view the role of romance in your relationship?

Romance is important but follows a traditional pattern
Romance is about complementing each other’s styles and preferences
Romantic gestures are essential and deeply personal
Romance involves frequent and enthusiastic expressions of love
14. When there are conflicts about intimacy, how do you typically resolve them?

We stick to traditional solutions that have worked in the past
We try to adapt to each other’s needs and find a middle ground
We focus on understanding each other’s emotions and reconnecting
We express our feelings openly and work through them together
15. How do you prefer to spend a romantic evening?

A quiet dinner at home, following our usual traditions
Doing something that both of us enjoy equally, sharing responsibilities
Engaging in deep, meaningful conversations to connect on a deeper level
Being spontaneous and expressive, showing affection freely
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