1. What do you feel you and your partner value most as a couple?
2. What type of gender roles exists during sex?
3. Do you and your partner ever use pornography or toys during sex?
4. Do you feel it is one partner’s job to please the other partner in the bedroom?
5. Is sex a priority in your relationship?
6. On a scale from 1-4, 1 being the least spontaneous and adventurous and 4 being the most, how spontaneous and adventurous is your sex life?
7. On a scale from 1-4, 1 being the least emotional and passionate and 4 being the most, how emotional and passionate do you feel you both are as a couple?
8. How in tune do you feel you are with your partner’s sexual feelings and preferences?
9. What do you think is most important in the bedroom?
10. Do you think you and your partner are both satisfied with your sex life?
11. How do you prefer to initiate intimacy with your partner?
12. What role does communication play in your intimacy?
13. How do you view the role of romance in your relationship?
14. When there are conflicts about intimacy, how do you typically resolve them?
15. How do you prefer to spend a romantic evening?