What Is Your Sexual Style Quiz

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 1663 | Updated: Jun 17, 2024
What Is Your Sexual Style Quiz

Different elements of sexual experiences and preferences make up a person’s sexual style. These range from how a person chooses to initiate sex, what their role is in a sexual relationship, how they experience pleasure, which sexual acts provide the most and least pleasure, role-playing, erotic scenarios, etc.

When you are in a relationship, it is important to be with a person whose sexual interests are the same as your own, making up your sexual style as a couple. Analyzing your sexual style can be a way to make sure you and your partner are having amazing sex all the time. It can transition between different sexual styles as you grow and evolve as an individual and as a couple. Take this 'What is your sexual style' quiz to find out.

Questions Excerpt

1. What do you feel you and your partner value most as a couple?

A. Commitment and security

B. Intimacy and equality

C. Experiences and feelings

D. Passion and Eroticism

2. What type of gender roles exists during sex?

A. Traditional gender roles

B. Comfortable discussing “his”, “her”, and “our” sexual desires

C. We have equal roles

D. Anything goes

3. Do you and your partner ever use pornography or toys during sex?

A. No

B. Rarely

C. Sometimes

D. Yes, frequently

4. Do you feel it is one partner’s job to please the other partner in the bedroom?

A. It’s the man’s job to please their woman

B. We are both responsible for our own sexual experiences

C. We both do whatever we can to please one another

D. We are both free to request of our partner what will satisfy us and both carry out those requests to ensure we are satisfied

5. Is sex a priority in your relationship?

A. Not really

B. Sometimes

C. Yes, most of the time

D. Yes, all of the time

6. On a scale from 1-4, 1 being the least spontaneous and adventurous and 4 being the most, how spontaneous and adventurous is your sex life?

A. 1

B. 3

C. 2

D. 4

7. On a scale from 1-4, 1 being the least emotional and passionate and 4 being the most, how emotional and passionate do you feel you both are as a couple?

A. 1

B. 3

C. 2

D. 4

8. How in tune do you feel you are with your partner’s sexual feelings and preferences?

A. I am not sure, I don’t believe it is anything out of the ordinary

B. I always make sure I stay in tune with my partner’s sexual feelings and preferences because they are always different

C. We are both extremely in tune with each other’s sexual feelings and preferences, we know each other extremely well and they generally stay the same

D. I feel like we both are willing to explore and be unpredictable in our sex life, so there really aren’t specific preferences

9. What do you think is most important in the bedroom?

A. Affection and intimacy

B. Satisfaction and equality

C. Meeting my partner’s needs

D. Spontaneity, adventure, and passion

10. Do you think you and your partner are both satisfied with your sex life?

A. One of us more than the other

B. Yes, most of the time

C. I hope so, but I am not sure

D. Definitely

11. How do you prefer to initiate intimacy with your partner?

A. I stick to what’s familiar and comfortable for both of us

B. I usually follow my partner’s lead or cues

C. I look for a deep emotional connection before making a move

D. I openly express my desires and appreciate when my partner does the same

12. What role does communication play in your intimacy?

A. We communicate primarily about practicalities or preferences

B. Our communication is about balancing each other’s needs

C. We share our deepest feelings and desires to strengthen our bond

D. We are very vocal about what we feel and want in the moment

13. How do you view the role of romance in your relationship?

A. Romance is important but follows a traditional pattern

B. Romance is about complementing each other’s styles and preferences

C. Romantic gestures are essential and deeply personal

D. Romance involves frequent and enthusiastic expressions of love

14. When there are conflicts about intimacy, how do you typically resolve them?

A. We stick to traditional solutions that have worked in the past

B. We try to adapt to each other’s needs and find a middle ground

C. We focus on understanding each other’s emotions and reconnecting

D. We express our feelings openly and work through them together

15. How do you prefer to spend a romantic evening?

A. A quiet dinner at home, following our usual traditions

B. Doing something that both of us enjoy equally, sharing responsibilities

C. Engaging in deep, meaningful conversations to connect on a deeper level

D. Being spontaneous and expressive, showing affection freely


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