1. Do you respect each other’s ideas without quibbles?
2. How genuinely are you interested in each other?
3. What’s the level of empathy shown in your relationship?
4. Does your partner express warmth towards you?
5. Do you feel included in your partner’s life?
6. Do what you say count?
7. Have you ever felt ignored?
8. Do you love spending time with your partner as much they do?
9. Are you good friends with your partner?
10. Does your mate find you physically attractive?