1. Have you ever noticed your wife admiring other women in a way that felt more than friendly?
2. Does she have close, emotionally intimate relationships with her female friends?
3. Has her emotional connection with you changed recently?
4. Has she seemed emotionally distant or withdrawn lately?
5. Have you had concerns about her being emotionally or physically involved with someone else?
6. Have you noticed any changes in how she interacts with you lately?
7. Has she been more private about her phone or social media use?
8. Have you noticed a shift in her interest in physical intimacy with you?
9. Has she ever talked to you about being attracted to women?
10. Does she tend to keep her feelings and thoughts to herself?