1. How do you plan to balance work and parenting responsibilities?
2. How important is it to your partner to maintain a work-life balance after having a baby?
3. How does your partner handle stress and sleep deprivation?
4. How do you envision spending weekends once you have a child?
5. What are your partner's views on sharing household chores after having a baby?
6. How do you both feel about taking parenting classes or reading parenting books?
7. How do you plan to handle conflicts or disagreements about parenting decisions?
8. Have you talked about your expectations for your child's education and extracurricular activities?
9. How do you plan to handle discipline and behavior management with your child?
10. Have you considered the impact of having a child on your social life?
11. What do you think your life will be like once you have a baby?
12. When you imagine your husband as a parent - are you happy with what you think he'd be like?
13. What does he do when he has no idea how to do something?
14. If things don't go according to plan, how does he react?
15. What are his views on having children?
16. Family finances can be affected by having a child. Have you ever talked about that with your husband?
17. Do you know anyone who may be willing to provide support for your partner and you once you have children?
18. Have you discussed how much responsibility you and your partner will each take for parenting?
19. What is your main reason for thinking about starting a family?Â
20. What do you think your husband might change once you have a baby?