1. Are you reaching out with hopes of being friends?
A. No
B. Yes
C. Partially
2. Are you trying to have a friendship, but your ex wants more?
A. Yes
B. Partially
C. No
3. Is it a platonic text on a birthday or holiday, and you’ve been cordial since your breakup?
A. No
B. Yes
C. Somewhat. We haven’t really talked, but it is platonic.
4. Is it a drunk text?
A. No
B. Sometimes
C. Yes
5. Did the relationship end cordially, and did they treat you with respect?
A. Yes
B. Somewhat
C. No
6. Are there any signs of reconciliation in your relationship?
A. No
B. Somewhat
C. Yes
7. Do you want to text your ex because you are lonely?
A. No
B. Yes
C. Partially
8. Is your ex in a new relationship?
A. No
B. Yes
C. Not sure
9. Do you want to text your ex to tell him you miss him?
A. Yes
B. Partially
C. No
10. How recently did you break up or last talk?
A. A few days
B. A few weeks
C. A few months
