Is He Playing Me Quiz

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Is He Playing Me Quiz

Few feelings compare to the uncertainty of not knowing where you truly stand in a relationship. It can leave you questioning every interaction, wondering if the connection is genuine or if you are being strung along. 

You might hesitate to bring up your concerns directly, fearing the answers or even the consequences of asking. Instead, you remain in a space of uncertainty, hoping for clarity that never quite comes.

If you are trying to figure out whether your relationship has real potential or if he might not be taking things seriously, this "Is he playing me?" quiz could help you find some of the answers you are looking for.

Questions Excerpt

1. How does he react when you express your feelings or concerns?

A. He dismisses them or gets defensive

B. He takes them seriously and tries to address them

C. He's very understanding and makes an effort to improve

2. Does he take responsibility for his actions in the relationship?

A. He blames me or others for problems and doesn't own up to his mistakes

B. He takes some responsibility, but not always

C. Yes, he acknowledges his role and strives to improve

3. How does he speak about you to others?

A. I never hear him talk about me, or it's in a dismissive way

B. He mentions me occasionally, but I'm not sure how he views me to others

C. He speaks highly of me and includes me in his life

4. How does he treat you when you're going through tough times?

A. He is distant or doesn't offer much support

B. He's somewhat supportive, but I wish he were more involved

C. He is there for me and offers real support

5. Does he make you feel secure in the relationship?

A. No, I always feel uncertain about where we stand

B. Sometimes, but I still have doubts

C. Yes, I feel comfortable and secure with him

6. Does he make an effort to understand your needs and feelings?

A. No, he seems uninterested in what I need

B. He tries, but it feels like he falls short sometimes

C. Yes, he makes a genuine effort to understand me

7. How does he handle disagreements or conflicts between you two?

A. He avoids discussing conflicts or gets confrontational

B. He tries to find middle ground and resolve conflicts

C. He communicates openly and works together to resolve issues

8. Does he show genuine interest in your life and activities?

A. He rarely asks about my life or interests

B. He asks about my life, but it's not consistent

C. He's genuinely curious and engaged in my life

9. How consistent is his communication with you?

A. He frequently goes days without contacting me

B. He's fairly consistent, but not always prompt

C. He regularly communicates and maintains the connection

10. Does he openly talk about his future plans involving you?

A. He avoids discussing any future plans

B. He talks about future plans, but it's uncertain

C. He includes you in his future plans and discusses them with excitement

11. Do you feel like your relationship is a mutual give and take?

A. No, I always feel like I’m trying harder

B. Sometimes I do

C. Yes, I would say it’s pretty even

12. Is he affectionate?

A. Only for sex

B. Sometimes he is, but I wish it was more often

C. Yes, most of the time

13. Does he make you a priority?

A. Not at all

B. Most of the time

C. Yes, I always feel that way

14. Does he bring you around his family and friends often?

A. I am almost never around his friend and don’t really know his family

B. Sometimes

C. Yes, a lot of the time he does

15. Does he make you feel special?

A. No, most times, he makes me feel the opposite

B. Yes, sometimes

C. Yes, most of the time

16. Does he take you out or buy you gifts? Even if it’s something small?

A. Rarely

B. He does, but not always

C. Yes, he’s pretty good with that

17. Does he say one thing when you’re alone and then act differently when you aren’t together?

A. Yes, most of the time he does

B. Rarely

C. No, most of the time he doesn't

18. Is there some reason you think he stays with you other than because he wants to be with you?

A. Yes, he is financially or otherwise dependent on me

B. Usually, I don’t, but sometimes I question it

C. No, I think it is for the right reasons

19. Do you feel like he is often deceptive about where he goes and who he’s with?

A. Yes, I feel like I never know

B. Sometimes he is shady

C. No, I don’t think so

20. When it comes to making plans, does he usually keep them?

A. He is always canceling plans or making changes last minute

B. Most of the time, he does

C. Yes, he does

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