One of the most awful feelings in the world is being unsure about your partner and relationship. No matter what you try to do, you can’t tell for sure if it’s a real connection or if you are being played. You often don’t want to ask the question outright, so you stay in a limbo period waiting to feel secure one way or the other. If you want to know if you are in a relationship that is bound to last or if he’s just playing you and it’s nothing serious, take this 'Is he playing me?' quiz and find out now!
1. Does he bring you around his family and friends often?
A. I am almost never around his friend and don’t really know his family
B. On occasion
C. Sometimes
D. Yes, a lot of the time he does
2. Does he make you a priority?
A. Not at all
B. Sometimes
C. Most of the time
D. Yes, I always feel that way
3. Is he affectionate?
A. Only for sex
B. Rarely he will be, but not enough
C. Sometimes he is, but I wish it was more often
D. Yes, most of the time
4. Do you feel like your relationship is a mutual give and take?
A. No, I always feel like I’m trying harder
B. Most of the time, it seems like he doesn’t care
C. Sometimes I do
D. Yes, I would say it’s pretty even
5. When it comes to making plans, does he usually keep them?
A. He is always canceling plans or making changes last minute
B. He is very inconsistent
C. Most of the time, he does
D. Yes, he does
6. Do you feel like he is often deceptive about where he goes and who he’s with?
A. Yes, I feel like I never know
B. A lot of the time, I feel out of the loop
C. Sometimes he is shady
D. No, I don’t think so
7. Is there some reason you think he stays with you other than because he wants to be with you?
A. Yes, he is financially or otherwise dependent on me
B. Sometimes I feel like it’s for the wrong reasons
C. Usually, I don’t, but sometimes I question it
D. No, I think it is for the right reasons
8. Does he say one thing when you’re alone and then act a different way when you aren’t together?
A. Yes, most of the time he does
B. Sometimes
C. Rarely
D. No, most of the time he doesn't
9. Does he take you out or buy you gifts? Even if it’s something small?
A. Rarely
B. Sometimes
C. He does, but not always
D. Yes, he’s pretty good with that
10. Does he make you feel special?
A. No, most times, he makes me feel the opposite
B. Rarely
C. Yes, sometimes
D. Yes, most of the time
11. How does he react when you express your feelings or concerns?
A. He dismisses them or gets defensive
B. He listens, but it doesn't lead to much change
C. He takes them seriously and tries to address them
D. He's very understanding and makes an effort to improve
12. Does he openly talk about his future plans involving you?
A. He avoids discussing any future plans
B. He mentions vague future ideas but not concrete plans
C. He talks about future plans, but it's uncertain
D. He includes you in his future plans and discusses them with excitement
13. How consistent is his communication with you?
A. He frequently goes days without contacting me
B. He's inconsistent, sometimes responsive, sometimes not
C. He's fairly consistent, but not always prompt
D. He regularly communicates and maintains the connection
14. Does he show genuine interest in your life and activities?
A. He rarely asks about my life or interests
B. Occasionally, he shows some interest
C. He asks about my life, but it's not consistent
D. He's genuinely curious and engaged in my life
15. How does he handle disagreements or conflicts between you two?
A. He avoids discussing conflicts or gets confrontational
B. He brushes off conflicts rather than addressing them
C. He tries to find middle ground and resolve conflicts
D. He communicates openly and works together to resolve issues
