Starting a conversation with your crush for the first time could be very scary and you might be unsure of what exactly you should say and how you should act. You might be worried about saying the wrong thing or talking too much. Planning out the conversation before it actually happens can help you navigate things better.
When it comes time to make your first move, you don’t want to miss an opportunity to spark up a conversation with that special someone. You never know if someone else will swoop in and beat you to it if you take too long to act.
So, do you know how to start talking with your crush? Take this quiz to find out if you are right.
1. Do you have a set of questions you might ask that would spark conversation as opposed to asking questions that only require a “yes” or “no” answer?
A. Yes I do
B. Somewhat
C. No, not really
2. Have you asked mutual friends or looked on social media to get an idea of some of your crush’s hobbies and interests?
A. A little bit, but not too much
B. No, not at all
C. I have done significant research on my crush
3. Have you identified some common interests that you could bring up in conversation with your crush?
A. No, I have not
B. Yes, I have
C. I think so/Somewhat
4. Have you done a dry run of the conversation and practiced with a friend so you are well-prepared?
A. Somewhat
B. Yes
C. No
5. Have you thought of some good stories you could tell that will interest your crush or make them laugh if the conversation isn’t going as easily as planned?
A. No, I have not
B. Yes, I have
C. I think so/Somewhat
6. Have you planned out exactly how you will approach your crush and how you will respond in different scenarios?
A. A little bit, but not really too much
B. Yes, I have thought of everything
C. No, I haven’t thought about that
7. Do you feel confident about your ability to captivate your crush when you finally approach them?
A. Yes
B. No
C. I am not sure
8. Do you feel like your nerves might take over and sabotage the conversation?
A. No, I think I will be fine
B. I am not sure, I hope not
C. Yes, that is my biggest fear
9. Have you successfully initiated a conversation with a crush in the past?
A. I don’t think so
B. I am not sure, possibly
C. Yes, I have
10. Have you thought about how to reframe the conversation and try going in a different direction if your initial approach doesn’t work?
A. Yes, I have a few different scenarios planned out in my head
B. No, I have not thought about that
C. Somewhat
