1. How often do you have sex?
C. Rarely or never
2. Do you enjoy having sex?
A. No, I prefer cuddling or hand holding
B. I like having sex sometimes, not everyday
C. YES! I have a lot of sex and I really enjoy it
3. Do you like trying new things in bed?
A. It depends on what ‘new things’
B. Yes, I am very adventurous
C. No, I am content with a calm sexual routine
4. Do you try new and different positions?
A. No, missionary only!
B. I like some new positions, but there’s nothing wrong with what is tried and true
C. Yes, I love to constantly mix it up
5. Do you feel sexy when you are having sex?
A. Yes, I love my body and the way I look/sound during sex
B. No, I feel self-conscious and uncomfortable
C. Yeah mostly, there are times I want to keep my shirt on or keep the light off
6. Where’s your mind when you are having sex?
A. I am present and focused on what and who I’m doing
B. I am usually thinking about other things I need to get done
C. My mind drifts but I always bring it back to the present moment
7. How often do you initiate sex?
A. Never, I let them make the first move
B. It depends on the situation, but I do initiate sometimes
C. I regularly initiate sex, I want it when I want it
8. Do you make your partner(s) orgasm?
A. Yes, they always orgasm
B. No, I care more about my orgasm
C. I make them orgasm sometimes and other times they do it themselves
9. Do you play games in the bedroom?
A. I like to play games sometimes, other times I just prefer to have regular sex
B. I love playing games, tie me up and I’m ready!
C. No, I do not like to have games in the bedroom
10. Do you have sex in different locations?
A. Yes, I love trying new places besides the bedroom
B. I have tried a few different places
C. No, I only have sex in a bed