1. Who makes the final decision in your relationship?
2. Can you accept your partner as he is today?
3. Does your partner lie to other people?
4. How true is this statement – what matters to me is what matters to him too?
5. How often do you talk about serious matters?
6. Does he have a consistent behavior?
7. Does he ever avoid conversations about important issues?
8. Do you feel like yourself when you’re spending time with him?
9. Can you introduce him to your friends and family?
10. Does he listen to you when you talk?