A victim is someone who constantly blames others when things go wrong and are the first to crumble emotionally, even when it is their own words. In other words, they always “play the victim” in the relationship. Have you been noticing some red flags lately, and you’re wondering if you are in a relationship with a victim? Take this quick quiz to find out!
1. Does your partner make you feel responsible for their unhappiness?
A. Yes, all the time
B. Yes, sometimes
C. No, never
2. Do they hold grudges?
A. Yes, they always hold grudges
B. Not sure
C. No, they never hold grudges
3. Do they stop talking to you for long periods of time when they’re upset?
A. Yes
B. Not sure
C. No
4. Do they try to make amends with people they have a fight with?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. No
5. Do they always have a problem with something or the other?
A. Yes, always
B. Yes, sometimes
C. No, not actually
6. Does your partner constantly talk about how badly their ex treated them?
A. Yes, all the time
B. Yes, sometimes
C. No, almost never
7. Are they constantly venting to you without caring about you?
A. Yes
B. Not sure
C. No
8. Does your partner own up to their mistakes?
A. Yes, almost always
B. Yes, sometimes
C. No, never
9. Does your partner find other people (including you) to blame for their issues?
A. Yes
B. Not sure
C. No
10. Do they get upset over minor issues in the relationship?
A. Yes, they get very upset
B. Yes, they get a little upset
C. No, not actually
