Am I Gay Quiz

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Am I Gay Quiz

"Am I gay?" It’s a question many people ask themselves at some point in their lives, and it’s completely normal to feel curious, confused, or uncertain about your sexual orientation. Whether you’re just beginning to explore your feelings or you’ve been questioning for a while, taking a self-reflection quiz can help you gain insight and clarity.

The 'Am I Gay Quiz' is designed to guide you through thought-provoking questions about attraction, feelings, and experiences. While no online quiz can define your identity for you, it can be a helpful starting point as you explore where you might fit on the spectrum of sexuality—whether that’s gay, bisexual, straight, queer, or still figuring things out.

Answer honestly and with an open mind. At the end, you’ll receive results that highlight patterns in your responses and provide resources for further reflection. Remember: sexuality is personal, fluid, and unique to everyone—this quiz is simply here to support you on your journey of self-discovery.

Questions Excerpt

1. Do you have a sexual interest in men?

A. Yes, I do

B. No, I don't

C. I am not sure

2. Have ever felt any sexual tension around a female?

A. No, I haven't

B. Yes, I have

C. I am not sure

3. Do you fancy meeting a male celebrity or a female celebrity?

A. Male

B. Female

C. I don't mind either

4. Is it difficult to perform sexually with a person of the opposite gender?

A. No, it isn't

B. Not really

C. Yes, it is

5. Do you feel more shy around people of your gender than the opposite one?

A. No, I don't

B. Kind of

C. Yes, I do

6. Has your heart always called out to the male gender?

A. Yes, it has

B. I am not sure

C. No, it has never

7. When someone of the same gender flirts with you, how do you feel?

A. Excited or heart-fluttery

B. I’m flattered, but that can happen with anyone

C. It doesn’t really register as something special

8. Do your sexual fantasies involve people of the same sex?

A. Yes, always

B. They involve people of different genders

C. Not really

9. Have you questioned your sexuality while you were young?

A. Yes, for sure

B. I'm still questioning it

C. Not really as that wasn’t my focus

10. Is a person’s sexual identity an important part of who they are?

A. No, why should it be

B. Yes, it is

C. No, as I think it can be fluid

11. Have you been afraid about your loved ones figuring out your innermost thoughts?

A. Yes, in some ways

B. I’m not sure whether they will get it

C. Not really

12. Do you feel more emotionally connected to people of your own gender?

A. Yes, I feel a deeper connection

B. I feel equally connected to all genders

C. No, I feel more connected to the opposite gender

13. How do you react to romantic scenes in movies between people of the same gender?

A. I find them deeply moving

B. I am indifferent or enjoy all kinds of romantic scenes

C. I prefer romantic scenes between opposite genders

14. How do you feel about the idea of a long-term relationship with someone of your own gender?

A. Excited and hopeful

B. Uncertain, but open to possibilities

C. It doesn’t feel like “me”

15. Have you sought out information or communities related to LGBTQ+ issues or identities?

A. Yes, frequently

B. Sometimes, out of curiosity

C. Not really interested


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